If you couldn't trust your parents, how are you supposed to trust the universe? So, of course you would easily blame the universe.

I am unsure we can get outside of our upbringing bubble. If we had good, encouraging parents, that kept pushing us to be our own person, then maybe.

Else, you are trapped forever in the upbringing bubble. Your parents are in your brain, commenting on everything you do, still. Until you clean all that up, it is still there.