Preheating the Scenery
"Preheat oven to ----- Degrees"! You have probably seen this sentence over a thousand times located on the back of your favorite frozen dinner box, baked recipe, or local cook book.
What is preheating, why do we preheat, and how do we preheat your probably wondering? Preheating is simply allowing your oven to accumulate enough heat 10-15 min prior before inserting your desired dish. This method ensures the oven reaches the proper and correct temperature needed to prepare your meal. Know that it takes only a few seconds to turn on your oven however, it can take several minutes for it to reach the right temperature. For all you non cookers/bakers out there before you bake something you MUST allow your oven to preheat prior to baking your desired meal.
Lucky for you preheating is not advanced rocket science. Notice how many recipes and cooking directions always recommend you preheat the oven prior to cooking. Failing to preheat before inserting your dish will cause your meal to bake unevenly, become dry, ruin the dish, and vary your cook time. You’re probably wondering what the hell preheating an oven has to do with having sex. However, like cooking preheating is actually a very important factor when it comes to having sex and sealing the deal for the night. It’s called "Fore Play and Teasing" also known as (FP&T). There have been plenty of nights where laying down chilling, hanging out, listening to music, and study nights with females ended up turning into a long night of sex instead just because I started to (FP&T).
"All you’re doing is teasing and performing sexual acts before having sexual intercourse."
This method allows women to accumulate sexual urges, sexual emotions, and sexual tension. Not only will this turn her on and make her extremely wet but, if done properly she will literally crave you and your dick. Furthermore this also prepares her mentally for sex. Her raging hormones will literally take her on a roller coaster ride. Foreplay not only makes her hormones go crazy but also prepares her oven for when you're ready to insert your dish if you catch my drift (Wet & Ready).
Proper foreplay is what seals the deal to having sex. A lot of women want to be caressed, kissed, hugged, bit, scratched, and even have their hair pulled. Bite her neck, Caress her skin with your tongue and lips. Locate her spot! It could be her neck, chest, stomach, upper thigh, and middle thigh, it’s crucial to become familiar with her body. Pay close attention to her reactions, moans, and movement patterns it will literally make the task a lot easier. Whatever you have to do to turn her on do it. Her being turned on will cause lubrication in the vagina which is 100% needed for comfortable intercourse.
Men have the ability to just think about sex and catch a boner as hard as a rock, but for women wanting and obtaining sex is not enough. Foreplay has both a physical and emotional purpose involving the mind and body when it comes to sex. Note that like the oven it takes only a few seconds to turn her on. However, it can take several minutes for her to reach a certain level of sexual arousal. It’s highly important for women to experience successful foreplay because it takes woman a longer time to reach the arousal point needed to orgasm. Foreplay and preheating is a must when it comes to having sex. Failure to do so will cause her to be uncomfortable, turned off, bored, unexcited, low arousal level, and maybe even dry. NO girl wants you to just jump into her pussy like an extreme sky diver as soon as you two are alone. Where’s the excitement and fun in that?
"Sex without Foreplay is like a song without an intro." -Toba Beta
