When studying relationships all over the country there are a very low percentage chance people stick together in 2022 and beyond. Some states like California incentivize getting divorce more than other states and we see the runaway hypergamous nature in places like Orange County California where the Divorce rate is 70%. People always think they can do better. Divorce is often initiated by the woman 80% of the time in the United States and at this point in our history I wouldn't recommend men getting married unless they are going to have kids with that woman. It is just a legal agreement that locked yourself into a ton of legal fees if things don't work out. A lot of women are just getting married to get likes on Instagram and check it off their list and then next thing you know "We grew apart."
The only modern relationships I have seen sticking together in 2022 are Amish and Mennonite relationships as well as Homesteader type relationships where everyone is in isolation. Where there is no one else to talk to so there is no one else to monkey branch to.
A huge thing that I have seen destroy a lot of marriages is when a women ends up making more than her husband in a corporate job. She suddenly equates her making a good salary to thinking she can do better and thinking she is this huge catch when in reality she is oftentimes a woman in her 30's or 40's, not in peak physical shape, and has kids and is not even close to the same SMV as a 21 year old attractive college girl who has no kids but has youth and fertility on her side. Women often lie to themselves and misvalue having a high paying job. That is a totally ancillary attribute but the first qualifiers are going to be the attractiveness.
Also there are so many relationships / marriage that are sexless miserable situations so we can't say those are healthy relationships.
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