Tough to be her dream guy for more than about 5 minutes in 2023. Their attention span is so extremely short it is insane. Women are able to get more attention than any other women in human history with social media so you aren't just competing against the guys in your immediate area, you are competing against guys all over the world. Sounds absurd but their attention is always being pulled away by guys on Instagram they have never even met. I have women like that. Women I connected with on a dating app and they live in Maryland and I haven't been there since April of last year. They are into the idea of me. How many guys has she compared to me and we haven't ever met in real life? How many women have thrown me to the side when I'm right in front of them because they compare me with a guy living in Austin Texas they have never met? It is really hard to say.

I have seen women throw away their marriages for guys they don't even know.

The thing you say about the boats is very true. That is one of the things I learned in Miami. My friend is in a boat club and we went out on a 24 footer and he even said that it sounds cool to be in the boat club and all that but basic women expect to be on $100 million dollar yachts that could make it across the Atlantic.

Some of the data on the dating apps actually suggest that it is only 2% of men suddenly having success. And when I say success I'm saying having sex with the women. Most men don't get to the date stage. Then there are guys that get to the date stage and these women are just looking for free meals and use these guys and it never goes to a physical / sexual stage. Can we even say that it is success to have sex with a woman if she isn't hot? Can we even say it is success if you are trying to have a family and you get to have sex with the woman once or twice and there is no future in it? It's all relative. Can we consider Tom Brady's marriage successful now that they are divorced and she is banging her martial arts trainer?

I do believe that people who got together when they were in high school had the best chance for the longest runway because of the pair bonding situation. That is more and more rare but I do see it a little bit still in the United States. The age gap situations become more and more rare for various reasons so the premise that a 20 year old women is even going to be with a 30 year old guy in the United States long term is more and more rare. Average age gap in marriage is 2.2 years and that is typical for most 1st World countries. Under developed nations it goes up to about 10 years or so. So taking that information and stuff that women have said in interviews from Eastern Europe on YouTube even they act like 15 year gaps are pushing it and 20 years is too much. So this stuff becomes less and less common. You basically have to be the top of the top of the top in status, looks.....etc. Looks like George Clooney is 61 and his wife is 44. Leonardo DiCaprio mainly just dates women 25 and under. Michael Jordan is 59 and his wife is 43. It seems like in normal society this is more rare. I know that a lot of the women have this very strange perception of certain ages or they think a guy in their 30's are going to be in the nursing home in a couple months but thing it really fucks with their head when that guy they think is old is stronger, more athletic, and destroying guys who are 23 but usually is just X's out the older guy and they guys who are her age as well. No one is good enough.

The women are always going to want more so it would damn near have to be a situation where they lived a very basic existence and then a guy took them under their wing and kept upgrading their lifestyle as time goes on.

This premise of going to Eastern Europe can blow up bad in a guys face as well and I'm very aware of that. The premise of going to Montenegro and being a "boss" might get cut off real quick if Serbian mafia type characters don't like the competition. You just never really know. I see this type of thing happen even in smaller towns in the Midwest......you come in as the Apex Predator and trashy type dudes want to start fights. It gets very primitive.

I think as society collapses some women will try to clean up their act and find a guy to rely on but the decline takes place more guys will really batten down the hatches. They will just live in a rusted out Astro Van from the 90's and live off fried Earth worms and boiled pigeon eggs. More women will get divorces to try to extract resources out of their former husbands retirement accounts and then go on food stamps as well and then try to find another couple guys to provide resources as well. Free meals, some cheap wine....etc.

Some might say I'm complaining or crying because I don't have game or something which simply isn't the case. It would be like saying Tom Brady doesn't have game or something.

I'm simply detailing the situation and that it is rapidly changing and can be very emotionally and financially devastating to make the wrong step. I have literally seen guys be a shell of their former self telling me that I'm so lucky that I haven't gotten married and went through some divorce. That's simply just what happened. Out of all the women I have had solid traction with the last couple of years I really can't say there is a true future with any of them. That being said I'm willing to take my chances in the International scene after elevating my status a little bit more. Like I have said it is damn near impossible. Most will just completely give up.