Be her dream guy.... the only way to a successful marriage.
But, i am not top 10%. Top 20% doesn't cut it. Maybe no longer top 10%, you need top 5%.

Still, there are many in that bracket who are paying the price of bad wimminz they wifed up.

Wimminz who watch Hollyweird propaganda now believe in super-man/prince charming who will ride into their lives, be able to heave their 150kg body onto a horse and ride off with her.

And this is the start of their fantasy. They expect to be more bedazzled each day.
All of these wimminz have almost no personality. No idea how to work with men. No idea of what a relationship is. But they all expect the fantasy.

Rian Stone uses the term Perfect Mental State. Where the dream land is much stronger than reality.
Where not even the wall will effect that dream.

I have a 70 y.o. friend(?) who wants a bf. And she has several men who would get with her, but she doesn't like any of them. She wants a guy who has a boat. And not a small boat, she is so over that, she wants a guy who has a boat that has a full time chef.
Sooo, a top 0.1% guy? Super cars are no longer a good enough level. And she thinks that her argumentative personality can attract that.

There are only a few people i know who have found a good mate and have a happy married life.
Find a good girl and marry her before she goes to college. It doesn't always work, but best odds. Like betting on craps.

Society collapsing might make a few of these wimminz go running into the arms of a good men..
but i am also forseeing corporations offering THEIR people housing inside walled cities
and more and more, their people means wimminz.