I even see some of these women playing the dating out for close to 2 decades. Mid to late 30s and still out there bouncing around. I always go back to the Texas chicks I met in Thailand in 2019. They were turning 30 and fast forward to now and all 3 are single, not engaged, or married. I have seen so many of these women always act like there is always someone better and they don't act right or say the right things to ever be in anything. And those are conservative good looking women from Texas. Think of all the women in NYC and California not saying the right things. That's why I say the number of left over women will be far greater than the numbers estimate. On the lower rungs of society I'm seeing more people getting together for at least a short period out of necessity. The attractive college educated women are staying out there almost indefinitely a lot of times. The statistics back that up and they are more likely to file divorces if they do get into something for a short period or decide to do that for the photo opportunity.

As far as the church structures I see a lot of it as another money related setup of people paying into the structure of it and the preacher has to grow the following. I see it with the Christian colleges. Very expensive to go there and they try to create an insulated bubble. People do get together at those places somewhat but also there are tons of the students going through all 4 years single. I have seen that first hand after coaching at a couple of those places.

I personally think the structure of it is often compromised and a lot of single moms try to hang out in churches there to find a new guy to help pay for a lot of their stuff.

I think the game was always somewhat difficult but now the time, money spent, and energy output is far greater in some respects but in other respects not. If we had to hunt and fish all day it's not necessarily easy but now we have to deal with this fraudulent financial system stripping our value away constantly. Now you have to have a license to fish in a river that was there naturally to begin with.