In the olden days, you would date women to find a wife and start a family.

Three years tops. And your reward was a decent wife.

Now, women want to date and play the field for a decade.
Women want it all, and don't realize they gave everything of worth away.

The juice just isn't worth the squeeze.

On the other note, getting right with God has a lot of internal benefits.
And could be good, as long as the priest isn't cucked.