Thank you for your comment. It is really strange he just decided to not want to be a father. Steve Jobs seemingly did a similar thing when he had a kid. It is almost like they felt like they weren't ready and that having a kid was going to hold them back from all the things they wanted to do or something. In Indiana I see it a lot where people have kids super early and then suddenly it is almost like they are ready for the kid to be grown up and moved out. Like they are really waiting until the kid is 18 so they can finally have "their freedom."

That sucks that there has been a legal battle from the whole visitation rights thing. I have seen so many of those situations from a distance and I really hope I never have to go through anything like that. It can really be stressful on the kids as well.

I don't know if I agree that an alpha male relationship is usually defined by resources. In my opinion a true alpha doesn't have to even spend $1 to land women initially. It seems a lot more common that Beta Bucks relationships are defined by outlaying financial resources.

With the true alpha males who are athletic, good looking, aren't scared to talk to women etc may temporarily go after a woman who already has a child but usually the realize that there are a lot of hurdles with trying to make something like that work and at the end of the day if they have all these other options with attractive women who don't have kids then they are going to turn their attention there primarily.

From my perspective and experience a guy is going to go after a fit attractive woman who hasn't been married and doesn't have kids for a relationship. We have all been sidetracked by a beautiful woman who has a kid but pretty much with myself and other guys who I know don't end up getting married or anything to them because it is too big of a commitment and additional life encumbrances.

I'm not saying it is impossible or that there aren't exceptions.

The fact they were celebrating the divorce and the one chick had a T-Shirt on about it sort of seemed like rubbing it in the guys face which was strange to me. I can get it if they were mentally supportive of her and spent time with her and said, "it is for the best.....etc" And the same thing goes for him and his friends. But to celebrate it on Instagram is just super strange to me.

These marriages are like what Boyfriend / Girlfriend used to be.

It is a big worry for a guy like me because I have just seen so much from my perspective that these days it is almost nearly impossible to make a relationship last in the United States.

The three experiences I have had with Brazilian women to be honest seem to be a lot better than the typical way American women treat situations. I have heard this voiced by several other men as well.

Women here seem to want to start unreal amount of meaningless arguments and drama over nothing. Guys like me don't put up with it to be honest. We just NEXT those girls and they can follow my Instagram and Snapchat stories until the end of time. It is crazy because you will see those chicks following my stories more than a year later but for the most part they won't step out and say "you know , I messed up..... can we hang out again." It is like they are waiting for me to hit them up or something but that is so unlikely.

I just feel like so many women self sabotage a lot of situations that could have actually improved their existence greatly.

This guy on YouTube just made a video that cracked me out because it is so true and I have seen this type of behavior a lot.