We're right around the time where most high schools are out for the summer and the seniors have graduated so I decided to make a reflection post on that summer after high school.
For many of us, it's one of the greatest days of our lives. And for the people who peaked in high school, I'm sorry. Once you walk across that stage you gain what you think is instant freedom. Some choose to attend 4 year universities, some choose to go to junior colleges, and some join the military. But one thing is for sure, you're growing up. By this time you're either 18 or close to it and most are ready to be adults (whether their parents want them to be or not).
Looking back on my summer after high school, two years ago already, I feel as though I could have made it far better if I just knew the things I know now. Some of it comes from reflection and some of it has come from maturing the last two years. The first half of your summer after high school should be spent adventuring. Go on that hike you've been wanting to. Stay out late driving haunted roads with your friends. Use every bit of sunlight you get and some moonlight if you can. Be a kid. That's the biggest advice I can. You might not still be in high school anymore but there is nothing wrong with still being a kid.
As summer winds on, you need to start thinking about what comes next. If it's off to a 4 year university, you need to get organized and pack (but not too much, dorms are small). If you're headed to basic training in August, get prepared physically and mentally. If you're staying at home and attending a junior college, be ready for a lot of your friends to leave you. But no matter what, cherish everything you do. Your life is at the point where things start changing drastically. Cherish your time with your family, your friends, your dog, etc. Enjoy everything you do and don't waste any time.
I'm going to be a third year bioengineering major at San Diego State University this fall. Looking back at graduation two years ago and seeing how much I've grown as a person since then inspired this post. I've learned a lot inside and outside the classroom, matured, and become a very different person. If I could change one thing from my summer after graduation it would be my lack of enjoying everything I did and cherishing the time I had with my family.
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