Life and Love are always coined with processes. These processes ( waiting, getting, retaining) are not easy , but it comes as a by product of a disciplined life.
WAITING FOR LOVE, FALLING IN LOVE, STAYING IN LOVE(LADIES)
The Love process is a Dynamic one so should be taken with all openess.
WAITING FOR LOVE
This should not be viewed as Being Desperate. This is what I call the Building Phase. In this phase of a woman's life she builds her heart, character, emotions and love and guides it with so much care and grace, getting it ready to share with the right one.
The love , emotions etc she nutures is to be SHARED NOT GIVING TOTALLY. Let me explain, The love process is a collective work, the both party should not come with 100% love, instead 50% each and groom it to a 100% together. Hope someone got that!'
FALLING IN LOVE: Most ladies are familiar with this phase. The success of this phase depends on the former phase, If the foundation of a thing is not solid, the building is bound to collapse. In this phase there are sparkles everywhere, the love is limitless, adrenaline pumping at maximum, your heart works faster than your head. Baby chill! It's a phase.
STAYING IN LOVE: Hmmm this phase is so dramatic, adrenaline pump reduces drastically, the sparkles are not that much, you become more rational than emotional, everything seems choking. Most ladies seems to ask 'where are the sparkles'?. They are in the arms of familiarity dear! When two people become really close they get to see themselves as they are, there is no room for pretence or impression.
What can Keep and Refuel this love constantly?
I believe its two factors
Definition of Love:
Love is patient,
love is kind.
It does not envy,
it does not boast,
it is not proud.
It is not rude,
it is not self-seeking,
it is not easily angered,
it keeps no record of wrongs.
Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth.
It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.
The Reason Why you Loved in The First Place: When you think of quitting, ask yourself 'why did I start'?
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