Dear Hivers Friends
A professor of mine once told me that there was a client who was a successful adult man, and came and said that he hated his mother, even though he admitted that his mother was very, very good. He was confused as to why extraordinary feelings of hatred existed without cause. After digging deeper, after calibration, it was found that her mother wanted to abort her womb. Finally the mother apologized to this child.
My friend once told me, that the second child of his brother is very difficult to manage and destructive aggressive, different from his brother who is very obedient. Also investigate calibration, when in the womb the mother faces a problem that is quite severe, so that tends to be depressed and not care about her pregnancy, another with the first pregnancy that is very guarded and loved with all my heart.
In a study of pregnant women who smoked, mothers were asked to stop smoking for one week, when the fetus was detected to be very calm in the womb. When the mother starts smoking again, the fetus shows restless movements and disapproves of the mother's smoking behavior.
In other studies, pregnant women who experience depression tend to give birth to children who are easily depressed as well. Indeed the psychological condition of pregnant women, will greatly affect the psychological fetus, carried until he was born even into adulthood.
When we say that pregnant women are "obliged" to be happy, it really isn't a joke. Pregnant women, indeed need to be guarded their feelings, please his heart, fulfilled his needs. In fact, Mother Maryam ra. only, as in the study of ust. Budi Ashari, "comforted" directly by God so as not to be sad with her pregnancy:
** "Then eat, drink and enjoy your heart ..." (Qur'an, verse 26) **
Medically, a pregnant woman naturally produces "negative" hormones when she is stressed, angry, jealous, jealous, etc. These hormones will also affect the growth of the fetus in the womb. How many abnormal psychological disorders that seem to begin when in the mother's womb.
So mother, cheerful, calm, get closer to God while pregnant. Equally important for pregnant women to maintain psychological. Even if there is a problem, it's better to stay away from the source of the problem during pregnancy in order to calm down. May our womb be the most comfortable place to grow the servants of Allah who will be born as a caliph in this world.
Regards, 
Aceh,12 June 2020
