The older I get each passing year the clearer I understand what life is. Yes, its true life is filled with ups and down but the people who never cease to be present are worth talking about. There was a time I felt I didn't need people around me talk more of having them as friends due to the experiences I already had, but along the line, my perspective changed because I met some amazing personality that helped me grow psychologically, spiritually and had impact in my life one way or the other.
The truth is friendship is not just the mutual affection towards two or more persons, it goes beyond that, I’m sure we all have that person you can relate this to, its because of that special love that can't even be described with just words , there's the phrase that says “a friend in need is a friend in deed" this phrase explains how much you treasure one another and how much you are willing to sacrifice as a Friend.
That bond that binds us would always ring a bell, like when we have a little misunderstanding, you're left with two choices to leave or to stay and talk things out. I could remember how we would laugh and the next minute one person is already angry, I'll be so confused like what's going on but then what I would always do is to try to talk things out amongst ourselves and settle.
Don't get me wrong things could really go wild within the circle, your patience would sometimes be tested but all I could do was to endure and always look at the bright side of it , I mean what is the worst that could happen because at the end of the day when that feeling of heartbreak kicks in you'll feel the pain and keep feeling guilt because you did not give a chance to talk about it and settle whatever discrepancies that must have happened, whenever I feel that way I rather say what is on mind rather than letting it kill me slowly, believe me or not it would eat you up psychologically and end up tampering with the amazing personality you possess and you end up blaming yourself.
Friendship of good memories, friendship that has good impact in one's life is worth keeping, we can't always choose to take one's flaw as an excuse to throw it all away, knowing for the fact that life itself is not fair, so it won't be fair if the act of forgiveness is not expressed at all, we are not perfect but that connection of imperfection can be worked on together as one, keeping all differences aside and correcting one another in love.
Your inner peace matters and you can't have that if you haven't made peace with the people you surround yourself with, everyone holds a space far or near, the question is, what value have you placed or impact have you made? It should always start with me, you, then them. Learn to live, laugh, love with a sincere heart and you'll see things would become much easier when you smile.
Thanks for reading through. 💙
