Hello my ladies, how are you all doing this weekend? today I briefly want to talk about how I see being a lady to be priceless and also some few crazy thoughts I have had even as I clearly know that I am a lady and should be grateful for that.
There are some times in my life where things are so difficult to the extreme that I feel like being a man would have results to a different lifestyle entirely. there are so many times I personally have thought of actually being comfortable and happy in life if I was a guy and the thoughts of that only call when I haven't figured out the power of being a woman as I was confused around very little things that could be resolved so easily but since I wasn't thinking that broad and feeding my life with the way society is designed was a little bit difficult for me and that was how it all results of me thinking of actually being a man to escape ladies difficulties in life.
Before I dive into how I finally discovered being myself, there is something that I would like to state clearly to keep reminding myself and to remind any other lady out there that have ever thought of this, that life will always remain as it is been designed to be. that is to say there will always be times for happiness and there will be times for sadness, it all depends on how you want to actually arrange your life to be happy at every given time as you only get to leave once. so whether you are a man or you are a woman there is always a difficult time for everyone so cherish yourself.
How I discovered the power I have as a woman
Right from the very beginning tracing from my childhood to date has always been on the table that I like to do business, I like to establish my own things but at the same time talking of domestic works, I like to cook and that is the only thing I like to do. so now seeing from how society design how ladies should b, that will ladies should make sure that the house is clean, the laundry's being done, the plates have been washed and that is a very difficult task for me to round around my head as I don't like doing all of that. until I actually figured out I could literally pay someone to handle all of this for me as I already have so much things going on and literally wouldn't have time to focus on every other domestic works apart from cooking which I love so much.
Until I came to the realization that everything can be fixed with a simple understanding, was when I began to embrace my happiness as I didn't keep my happiness in the hands of someone else to tore with. at this very stage for ladies that actually want to consider having a partner or already have a partner, this can be a little bit broad as your partner will have to understand you. I personally I see this thing to be a very simple task as I am coming from a different background entirely as my partner is coming from a different background entirely and we both have our lives to leave, so when we come together and agree to be one it means we should respect each other's feelings and emotions and talk about how to balance some of the things that keeps us worry. So for people that actually have partners you might wants to develop a good communication skills as your partner needs to understand the fact that there are some things that you can't just handle and it is okay to pay someone to handle them in as much as you have something that keeps you occupied and even if you have nothing keeping you occupied as long as you don't feel comfortable doing them I don't see any reason why you should do them.
Before I round up this post, I would like to say there are different ways in handling different situations and so the way you choose to handle yours might not be the way society is designed for you to handle and trust me you needn't follow the purpose of the society, So the focus here is for you to live happily as long as you still breath.
