Lately, I have been getting some feedback from family and friends. Some say I am not on the right track and others say I am making no positive impact. Honestly, it got me all worried and perplexed cause I felt like a failure. Like a beast with no nation. Worrying wasn't the only thing I felt, I became blinded to the thought that I am not making people proud or I am responsible for their
happiness.
Growth is a transformational process and nobody said it was going to be a smooth ride. It would be rough and messed up like shit and I tell you again it will be fucked. In an IG post I watched where Chris Rock said:
Men are loved conditionally and that is bound to the fact that they are bringing something
Most guys, myself included wouldn't want to hear this but think about it and you will see that it is the harsh reality of things. Keeping it short and real, I can say that those disappointed by my outing can go and jump on the middle finger if you what I mean. Your happiness and expectation of me are all placed on you and I am not responsible for that.
Sounding mean right?
like a cold motherfucker or an asshole
You could even say a serial killer.
But Nah!
Just another nigga going through life and facing his own challenges. Life is hard and I am sure the big lie we have been told is
It gets easier
Hey dear,
It doesn't!!!!!!!!!
We as humans just get stronger and tougher and we are more willing to face what comes next and damn the consequences. Like I have always said
You can never be truly happy until you start to make decisions for yourself and live with the consequences.
KEEP IT COOL BLACKAVALON AND RETURN BACK TO THE INITIAL PAGE
MAKING IT PROFESSIONAL
If you have been consistent with my blog, it wouldn't be a shocker that I have been off for a while cause you will notice I haven't been regular with my content. I should apologize for that but well like I said I have been battling with life issues, so please just take it that have been busy and nothing less.
So in this write up let me take a few minutes to talk about how there is a new trend in town that we haven't really paid attention to. The fact is we haven't really noticed the trend lately because we are all guilty of it in one way or another.
And that trend is MAKING IT PROFESSIONAL
Off recent, I have you seen how we all try to make even the littlest thing look professional just not to look unserious? Now when people what to avoid something or give an excuse for not doing something,
WE ALL SAY WE BUSY
Not because we are busy but for the reason that we don't want to do it. Now, people are probably scared of rejecting you from the onset for one reason or another best known to them. But here is the funny part, just do it from the beginning and ease the person off the stress of thinking you will or you care enough to do it. There is no time in this world, sooner or later it will all be over and we will find out we didn't even have enough time to do all things we planned on doing.
THE NEXT ONE: CARRYING THE PERSON ALONG
The world of today has the notion that keeping people where they are meant to be is what gives you the power to demand what you want from them. It might be true or not, but who can tell? The era feels that carrying people along and giving that false pretense that you care is good or a norm because you can't tell what you might need from them tomorrow. Everybody is guility of that because we all want a safe haven.
So please be yourself no matter what and real person will come around cause TRUE VIBES CANNOT BE IGNORE AND THERE IS NO VIBE LIKE YOURS.
