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See, everyone's behavior is different, some people are very calm and very patient, but there are some people who get angry very quickly and they get angry very much due to which they spoil many of their work. But there are all kinds of people around us, some people are such who get angry quickly, some people are such who do not get angry easily and people also say many times that this person is a very calm person, he does not get angry and who knows what else. As I said, everyone's personality is different. Many times, a lot depends on the people around you, the environment you are in. If the people around you are of calm nature, then you also become like them. If they are short-tempered and get angry easily or keep fighting, then your behavior also becomes like that.

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So overall your environment also makes a lot of difference, it also depends on many things like what is your environment and what kind of people you associate with. If I talk about myself, I do not get angry that easily but when I do get angry then I try to calm myself down and I try not to say anything good or bad to anyone. Look, after all I am also a human being and I get angry. Sometimes it happens that you get angry because of something someone says or sometimes some such things happen which make you angry. Every person has different capacity to control anger. When the capacity is exceeded then that person gets angry.

Often you must have noticed that whoever gets angry is the one who suffers the loss in the end because see, many times in anger you spoil your relationships, that is why it is said that when you are very angry or when you are very happy then do not take any kind of decision because at both the times you take very wrong decisions. It is okay, whenever you are taking a big decision or I mean any kind of decision, then you should think about it with a little thought and only after that take any decision. If you take any decision in haste, then many times you have to face bad consequences, sometimes your results also prove to be right but it is not necessary that it happens every time.

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Many people work very well under pressure, you might have seen this too, but see, if a person goes under too much pressure, then he becomes very angry and remains stressed and all these things are visible on his face, if a person is happy and he remains calm and does some such things in his daily life which help him in remaining calm or I can say that in a way he controls his anger, then all these things are visible to you. Well, if I talk about myself, I am a very calm person, but if you see, everyone gets angry, I also get angry, sometimes I say things, sometimes I keep them in my mind.

My personal opinion is that whenever you get angry, then you should try to remain calm. Sometimes it is not easy to remain calm and polite, but still if you are able to control yourself then it is a very big thing. And if due to any accident you say something wrong or wrong to someone then you should apologize for that and you must say that please forgive me, I did not get angry and said many things to you but I want to apologize to you, see I cannot take back the words that I said but please forgive me.

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If someone around you is angry, you should never do anything that makes them more angry. Try to calm them down in some way or the other. Leave them alone for some time, this also makes a lot of difference. This strategy does not necessarily work with everyone because it is working with me, but I feel that a lot of what causes a person to get angry is within themselves. Many times we get angry in such a way that we have imagined something and it does not happen as per our wish, then we get angry at that person, but you should not do this, you should try to remain happy in every situation and spread happiness, if you remain yourself then people also get scared to insult you and because of that a lot of things change around you, you must be careful.

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