When Lies Become a Habit and Trust Fades

Often, we all lie to someone in some way or another. Sometimes we are compelled to do so, but sometimes we do not want to tell people anything due to we have to take recourse to lies. Often, to conceal a truth, we lie, and people start inventing another story. If I talk about myself, then in my childhood, I was very fond of telling stories. I don't know why this thing disappeared from me gradually. But I was a very talkative person, but now slowly all this is diminishing in me. It may be that as we grow up, we understand that the less we mix with people, the more beneficial it is for us. I am saying this from my personal experience. Look, sometimes circumstances arise that you are forced to lie, and some people have this habit.

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Although I say friend most of the time, see, sometimes we all have to lie to defend ourselves and take the help of lies. Sometimes by lying we can escape from a lot of things or save someone, like if a thief steals your ATM and asks you for the ATM card then most of the time you will tell him the wrong thing or you will say that you do not remember, whereas you must remember but you do not want to tell, that is why you are lying. See, even if anyone is lying, if you are talking, if someone is talking to you, if you come to know that the person was lying to you, then you get angry, and then you lose trust in that person.

I also know many such people who lie a lot, and it becomes a bit difficult to believe them because you do not know when they will start lying to you, and you will not even experience it. But you see, you can keep hiding the lie, you will come to know the truth one day or the other. But the thing is that if you tell the truth, then you do not have to remember all those things; if you lie, then your statement keeps changing again and again. Yes, many people get used to it and they tell lies very clearly, but still, everyone makes mistakes.

If you tell a true incident or a true thing, then you do not need to remember all those things, because you will say the same thing in the same way as you said it for the first time. Yes, you may forget a little bit after years, but most of the time your statement will be the same type. If you remember many incidents from your childhood, and you remember them very well, and you keep repeating them again and again in your memory, due to which you remember them, and you are never able to forget them.

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But there are some things that people make up on their own or should I say they believe in small things, in such a case, their statement keeps on changing every time and you also get associated with this, see, the loss of this thing does not happen to you but to that person because then he gives up his credibility in the eyes of the people, there are also happy people like this among my acquaintances, some people are in my house also and some people are there where I work also, they sometimes tell so many lies that even the other person starts laughing at their words and apart from laughing we cannot do anything.

See, when you experience that a person is lying to you or he is telling a lot of lies, then you do not trust him, and whenever he tells you anything, you must double-check it, and if you do not do that, then you become a partner in the lie or become a fan of his lies. Many times, people present lies in such a way that people pity them, and we help them financially, but later, when they come to know that they make similar excuses to everyone and keep on asking for a loan, then you become cautious from the next time, and things become more difficult for that person.

In the end, I would just like to say that if you are facing any kind of dilemma or you are stuck in some problem, then tell the truth to your loved ones, never lie to them because they should know what is going on in your life because they are the ones who really want your well being and often people show love only for show.

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