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Things are growing very fast around us. Even if we talk about technology, our culture or should I say our community is changing a lot around us. Earlier things were very different and now in just a few years, things are changing so fast that you get shocked just by looking at them. As technology is increasing, our medium of communication is also changing. Earlier people used to send emails, before that they used to send messages and then there was the era of SMS and now there are countless social media platforms like WhatsApp, Snapchat, Instagram, Facebook, Twitter, LinkedIn, Discord, and many more on which you can chat. List of social platforms with at least 100 million active users You might not even have heard the names of some of them. If you start looking at the list, you might reach the wedding and see how big each list is and every day something new keeps coming here and we do not even know and those companies also close down. But nowadays there are many means of communication. Similarly, for love too, yes, nowadays you must have seen how people of different ages agree to get married, everyone has their mentality, some people want money, some people wish for fame and some want something else.

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Everyone has their mentality. I am not judging anyone and neither am I in a position to judge anyone and I should not judge anyone because everyone has their own choice of what they want in their life and whatnot. Many people are straightforward and they are clear about what they want. Many people want to marry rich people because they like that lifestyle and some people may like it but even after wanting to do so, they do not let it show. Best wishes, it is our opinion and everyone is free to make decisions about their life. And believe me, there is no age to fall in love, like now we can see in the movie season series how the meaning of love is changing there too. It may be that people get inspiration from there, people learn from there, as we see in movies, and see people around us, in the same way we start building a society. Earlier the means of communication were very less and the internet was not available everywhere so everything was limited but now everyone has unlimited access to everything, if you have internet then you can get anything from anywhere.

And perhaps things are changing a lot because people from many other countries also fall in love with each other and some people are even ready to decorate it in the sacred bond of marriage. Recently a case became very famous in India in which a woman from our close neighbour country Pakistan, who was married and did have children, fell in love with a boy from India who was much younger than her. When it was the time of lockdown, both of them used to play pub games together, and from there their conversation started, gradually this conversation turned into love and she crossed the border and came to India illegally. At that time both of them were in a lot of discussions, now the matter has cooled down, but still, you can see one small example of how now age does not depend on whether you can love each other or not.

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The definition of love is changing day by day and you cannot stop someone from loving someone. Everyone has their own choice. If you are going somewhere then you will see some amazing personalities, whether it is a boy or a girl, you can like him/her according to your gender or it can also be according to your choice, you may find that person attractive but falling in love is a different thing. We get attracted by an amazing personality or a beautiful face but until you go close to them or talk to them, you are not able to know them well. Everyone has their own choice. Some people like people of their age, some like people younger than them or some like people older than them or it all depends on what your choice is. Earlier times were different when girls were married at a very young age but the practice has reduced. I will not say that it has stopped completely, it is still going on and in many places, even big men of around 50-60 years of age marry young girls and their only motive is to have sex with them and when their desire is fulfilled, they leave them. It is very sad to hear that right now this practice is very strong in many countries and this business is flourishing too.

Sometimes it hurts others to hear this and at times I feel guilty that I can't do anything about it or haven't been able to do anything about it till now. I understand here that if you love or marry someone of your age, then your mental level is a little bit the same. If you love or marry someone younger or older than you, then there is a little mental difference. Yes, this does not happen every time. Some people have been very mature since childhood. To be honest, if they are so mature, then they do not study all these things. They do not even care about all these things. They remain busy with their work and are happy with it. But still, if you love someone of your age, if you fall in love with them, then it is better.

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Your compatibility is a little better. If you love someone younger than you and you marry them, then it is inevitable that they will leave you. Because of this difference, you will feel the difference sometimes or the other because their age will increase slower than yours and you will grow old faster. You will probably realize this later. But I think that if you love someone from college and marry them, it is much better because you will grow old together and it will be fun. I believe I do not know anything about this subject. I am not an expert, I am just sharing my thoughts, what do you think about this?