As an adolescent,there are myriad of problems and challenges stirring you in the face in your day to day living..this challenges ranges from relational,identity,values,academic to emotional,financial,health,addictions as well as future problems from parents,colleagues,society to compromise. The best day of your life is the one in which you decide your life is your own.No apologies or excuses,no one to lean on,rely on or blame.The gift is yours;it is an amazing journey,and you alone are responsible for the quality of it"this is the day your life really begins"...
Your day begins when you start to be responsiblr for the way you think,speak,act, respond and relate with others.The day you make up your mind to be unpertubed by the challenges of life but face it with a positive attitude and bring out fervor and enthusiasm in your troubles,that day you have resigned from being an infant to being an adolescent who carries a great future. Always memorise and cultivate this to your thinking"my will shall shape my future.whether i fail or succeed shall be no man's doing but my own. I am the force,i can clear the maze, my choices,my responsibility-win or lose;only i holds the key to my destiny"
When people are irresponsible,they end up being problems to themselves,they end up being problems to the society and their family. When you refuse to take responsibility for your life and leave your life to chance,most of this effects will be evident in your life..
(1) You will live a life full of miseries and regrets
(2) You will always try to please everybody and displease yourself.you will suffer from low self esteem,and depend on other people for recognition,approval,acceptance and affirmation of your worth and value.
(3) You may tend to develop an addictive lifestyle which looks for quick fixes and immediate answers to cover up for escaping responsibility
(4) You will live your life in fear of many things,including fear of failure,fear of rejection and fear of the future.Your life will lack the sterling quality of faith and hope,which attract God to our affairs.
(5) Irresponsibility will make you emotionally and psychologically unhealthy, struggling from insecurity, inferiority and multiple personality complex.
Wondering How You Can Be In this Group of Responsible People??? Here are some few steps
(1)Fundamentally be accountable for what you think
To take responsibility for what you think, choose basically:
➡What you hear and silently listen to
➡Who you associate or walk with all the time
➡What you watch and Read
➡Watch who lead and mentor you
(2) Define who you are based on what God says you are,not on what your background or qualifications say you are.
(3) Be open to new ideas,changes and concepts about life
(4) Take some risks,be prepared to become vulnerable to change and grow in your life
(5) Start talking positively to yourself
(6) Let go of anger,hostility,fear and blame;and embrace or accept the consequences of your responses to people and events in your life
Note:Your life is the sum result of all the choices you make,both consciously and unconsciously.If you can take control of all aspects of your life, you can find the freedom that comes from being in charge of yourself.
I just hope this write up impacts positivelt on someone.
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