Hello everyone your welcome to my blog today its your favourite girl 
I personally believe that whatever options come in our life, they teach us something or the other and we should accept whatever challenges come our way and only then we will get the benefit of it, if not today then tomorrow.
Am not a student anymore and I actually have so many hard times in school that I felt like giving up but a lot of things and persons motivated me to keep moving going and not give up , it was actually very hard to face them head strong and stop ,myself from quitting. Likewise so many other students that I encountered in school we all faced trying times together and cried together and also laughed together and also encouraged each other most of the times we always stood in for each other.
A lot of people think that confidence only comes from doing something over again. They think you have to have a lot of experience before you can feel sure of yourself.. Yes experience does help.. I do not think confidence should be limited to only what you have done before.
So lets move straight into the topic. As a young girl that just entered the university in the year 2016 as a medical student , I entered school with so much joy in my heart to archive a lot of things I school and meet new friends and have good experiences and create memories that will bring a lot of smile to our faces whenever we remember them but life always have its own plan over ours.
Well in my second year in school in pre clinical class 1 we had this exam call pre mb exams that we take in 200level before being qualified for the mbbs exam in 300level class. And during this time it was very intense as we heard series of test to write and so many topics to cover for the upcoming exams and for me it was a very stressful time because my dad was down with a stroke at that time and I was torn between going back home most of the times and being in school.
Two weeks before the exam dad died and I lost all concentration and I wrote the exam and it didn’t go well and I feel into depression and isolated myself from everybody and it was my friends and my family members especially mom and my beloved sister who just passed , may her soul continue to rest in peace. She and mom were my major backbone and support system all through my trying times in school and they encouraged me never to give up and continue school .
They helped me to get out of my depression and find things that make me happy and engage in them my appreciation goes out to my friends who supported me during those times.
Most times, the experiences only are not the only criteria for that success to be achieved, experiences won't be the frontrunner when you are about to pitch what you have and possess. The confidence we have to speak up and talk about who we are and what we can do goes a long way.
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