ASKING FOR HELP DOESN'T REDUCE YOUR VALUE

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we all live in a society where most people make you feel that you have not tried enough and that is why you are asking for help. As a little girl back then I know of how many times I have slept with hunger just because I can't just ask. If I try to ask, the person will look for a seat, sit down and start to tell you how miserable his or her situation is. You will be made to feel sorry for coming to ask in the first place.

Every one of us has issues in life but what makes the difference is the magnitude of our issues. Someone’s issue maybe be a piece of cake to you but to them, it’s as though their entire world is falling apart. It’s the same way the problems you feel are too huge for you will seem so little to another person. That’s just as it is. As much as we all have issues, you never know the weight of what someone else is carrying and that’s why we are advised to be kind to people no matter what because your kindness can go a long way to restoring their hope that things will get better.

whenever it comes to issues relating to financial involvement, I don't know why I find it hard to ask for help. At times in the past, I do reason it like is it because I don't like NO for an answer or feel rejected? I know it's not that but seriously, I still don't know the why myself but all I know is that I'm not the type that easily ask for financial help.

Probably, my empathy spirit is too high or I'm over assuming things cos I feel like as long as I'm struggling financially, someone else or the person I want to ask might probably be struggling too but not showing it just like some people still see me as someone who isn't struggling and feel like everything is okay with me financially .

Even though I understand the importance of asking for help and how it can aid our life's journey, still, I'm not the type of person who finds it easy to ask others for help. It's not like I'm proud of it sometimes; it's just that I'm always skeptical about seeking help, especially from the wrong person, because I don't want a situation where I'd seek help from someone and it'll be used to mock me in the near future or it'll become the talk of the community. I live a private lifestyle, and if I share my vulnerability with you, I don't expect it to be shared with everyone else.

Our choices with seeking for help does says a lot about us, while we don't want to shoulder everything that concerns us and ask for help, there are limits to asking for help so you don't become someone who always takes but never gives. I've seen a lot of people like that and for the fear of not being like them, I do hold back.

I believe that we all have our qualities and flaws. What changes from one person to another is the ability to highlight what is good, as well as to hide their weaknesses. It is not possible to master all human knowledge and be good at everything. We can also consider that we are born with certain talents, where it seems that skills are granted to some people, things that only training and discipline can develop in those who did not receive this gift.

One of the things life has taught me over the years is that no one truly survives alone; in other words, we need each other to survive

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