Both of our parents, namely father and mother, are the most responsible people in our lives. They are the ones who look after us from birth to adulthood without expecting anything in return from us. Without them, it is not certain that we can be like now. They also give additional pure love, affection and affection for us, including they are willing to sacrifice for us without expecting the slightest reward.
According to runimas , Therefore, let us not cause anger or disappointment to our two parents, because of the pleasure of Allah SWT, depending on the pleasure of parents, and the wrath of Allah depends on the wrath of parents, then come and love and respect them.
رِضَى اللهِ فِى رِضَى الْوَالِدَيْنِ وَسُخْطُ اللهِ فِى سُخْطِ الْوَالِدَيْنِ
Meaning: "The pleasure of God depends on the pleasure of parents and the wrath of God depends on the wrath of parents" (HR Tabrani)
From the hadith above it is explained that Allah SWT, will please or anger us according to the pleasure or wrath of parents.
Prayer Reading For Both Parents (Father and Mother)
Although our parents do not expect in return for their services to us as children. but it is our duty as children to respect, love and love them again. Even though everything we give will not be able to repay all their services and affection. One of the obligations of a child to his parents is to pray for them, both those who remain and those who have not (passed away). As for the prayer readings for the two parents complete with Latin and the translation are as follows.
Prayer Reading For Both Parents
عَللّٰهُمَّ اغْفِرْلِيْ وَلِوَالِدَيَّ وَارْحَمْهُمَاكَمَارَبَّيَانِيْ صَغِيْرَا
Alloohummaghfirlii waliwaalidayya warham humma kamaa rabbayaa nii shaghiiraa
Meaning: "O my Lord, forgive me and my parents (Mother and Father), love them as they loved me when I was a child"
Then for prayer ask for forgiveness for the two parents along with the Latin and the meaning is as follows.
Prayer for forgiveness of sins for both parents
اَللّٰهُمَّ اغْفِرِلِى ذُنُوْبِى وَلِوَالِدََّ وَارْحَمْهُمَا كمَا رَبَّيَانِىْ صَغِيْر .ا. Vljmy Brotherhood valmslmat valmvmnyn valmvmnat, alahya’ minhum valamvat, vtab vbynhm balkhyrat Benin, Lord aghfir varhm Le khyralrahmyn, vlahvl vlaqvh alaballh Nisā'ī u
Allaahummaghfirlii dzunuubii waliwaalidayya warhamhumaa kamaa robbayaanii shoghiiro, waliljamii'il muslimina walmuslimaati, walmu'miniina wal mu'minaati Al ahyaa'i minhum wal amwaati, wataabi 'bainanaa wa bainahum bil khoiraati, robbighfir warham wa annta k 'aliyyil adhiimi.
Meaning: "O Allah, grant me forgiveness for my sins and the sins of my parents, and have mercy on both of them as they both took care of me when I was little, so include all Muslims, all believers, men- men and women who are still alive and dead, and join one of us and them together in goodness. O God, grant mercy and mercy because You are a God who is more merciful and has no power and effort if with Your help. "
That is a prayer reading for both parents and a prayer asking for forgiveness for both parents, we as children are obliged to serve both our parents which is an obligation, we as children often hurt him. These are things that we must carry out in filial piety to our parents (mother and father).
How to serve our parents
We must be polite and respectful to both parents.
Must obey the second commandment as long as it is not contrary to religion, if the command is contrary to our religion it is not obligatory to obey it.
Do not speak harshly to them
It is obligatory to follow the advice of both. if reprimanded, we must realize that the deeds we perform are not pleased by the parents.
Assist their work in daily activities.
Must maintain a good name for both parents along with the way they always do good.
It is obligatory to take care of both especially if our parents are old and rented.
When our parents have died, what we are obliged to do is.
Implementing the second advice given while still alive
Maintaining the good name of the two parents
Praying for them to be forgiven of their sins and their graves be opened by Allah SWT
The words of Rasulullah Saw, Who commanded us to be devoted to our parents, even though our two parents were gone.
A man (to Rasulullah saw) stopped and then he asked: "O Rasulullah, is there still any good that I am willing to do for my parents after his death? , fulfilling their promises, honoring their friends, and always befriending those who are related to them (both parents). " (HR. Abu Daud)
Such is the case with the recitation of prayers for the two parents, the mother and the father, and a few ways to serve them. With our prayers to the two parents may Allah SWT, protect, love them and if they have died may their sins be forgiven and they are placed in the best place which is heaven. Amen.
