People often say love is beautiful but they also say it is blind. For the longest time I didn’t know which one to believe.
How can something be beautiful if you can’t even see it
And how can something invisible have the power to lift you so high yet at the same time, break you down completely
My own journey with love has carried both sides the pain and the healing
The first time I fell in love, I thought I had found happiness I trusted fully and gave my heart without holding anything back I believed the sweet words the promises,
and the little attention I was given
At that time, I thought this was what love was supposed to feel like
But it didn’t take long before the truth revealed itself.
My first boyfriend showed me another face of love one that was filled with disappointment betrayal and heartbreak It left me hurt so deeply that I told myself never again I carried that pain for a long time and built walls around my heart
Because of that experience I stopped believing in love Anytime people around me spoke about how love made them happy
I would just shake my head For me love wasn’t beautiful it was something to be avoided I thought I was safer without it
But life has a way of surprising us especially when we are not looking Recently I met someone new and everything began to change
He didn’t come with too many words or empty promises. Instead, he showed me care through actions
He was patient with me, gentle with my scars, and never made me feel like I had to be perfect to deserve love.
With him I began to see another side of love, one that heals instead of breaks.
This man makes me feel safe in ways I never knew I needed. He checks on me, listens to me, respects me, and makes me laugh
And slowly, without realizing it I started to believe again I understood that real love is not about pain and confusion It is about peace trust and feeling valued
If there’s one thing I’ve learned it’s that love should never make you question your worth. It should not make you feel small or unwanted Love
should be the place where you are reminded every day that you matter Yes love is blind because we step into it without knowing what will happen But when you meet the right person you don’t need to see it is enough to feel
So yes, I have been in love before The first time almost destroyed me but the second time is teaching me that love truly can be beautiful
And maybe that’s the real lesson sometimes you have to be broken first, so that when love finally comes in the right way you’ll know just how precious it is thanks 😊😊 for reading my post 💯❤️
