Thanks mate. My life was in reverse because I barely have a relationship with my uncles and aunts. I think it's largely due to their fault for not making themselves accessible and also transferring some of the bad blood they had in their generation over to mine.

The relationship with I and my siblings isn't always rosey but we're all making an effort to shield the younger ones from it. It's a subconscious thing we're all doing because we are all trying to rise above the issues that prevented us from enjoying time with our own aunts and uncles.