From the beginning of creation, it was a man and a woman that were in the garden. At a point in time were you no longer feel singleness is still the way out, it is very essential to find a partner. Someone that loves you for who you are and you also love him for who he is. Going through all of this stage isn’t an easy one especially finding your soul mate.
I will talk about some tips that helped me in my relationship and how am moving on with my own life.
Yes, I said my own life. Do you think because of emotional trauma can make you think suicide? No, that’s not an option. It’s an indication that your partner isn’t the soul mate for you.
Am quite sure everyone has been or is currently into a relationship and if a contest be made about sharing your experience, a lot of contributions will be made that are innovative and informative.
My Experience
I met this guy back then in college, I love him because he is intelligent and a kind of smart and interactive too. At some point in school when I don’t understand what is been taught I do go to him for explanation of the concept. He was kind and the quiet type but I tell you that the definition of your soul mate isn’t in those qualities but what makes up you both. I left him because he cheats a lot which I have seen.
I have this theory belief concerning humans that at maturity stage, one begins to posses some traits which make you a mate for soul relationship.
Now every one has a unique mate. it is grouped accordingly. I may not put it using the right tenses but its just like examining this.
Example
There are five groups for instance of categories of soul mate it could be A, B, C, D or E.
Anyone who is made up of A should have an A partner or soulmate. Anyone who is made up of B should have a B partner likewise C,D and E. failure to adhere will lead to an opposing force in action which may be discovered in future time.
Now get this right, he or she may look handsome, beautiful, smart, intelligent, wealthy, healthy, religious or even hardworking in nature but I tell you if that’s not your soul mate. It may lead to failed relationship.
My Advise To Ladies Like Me
If you have been in a relationship trauma before and you find out that each time you get reconciled, in a short time again it gets worst and its like a daily repetitive occurrence, please walk out of such relationship.
You are linking unlike terms together which naturally repels and won’t relate despite his or her qualities.
Get involved into something creative, what I did when I was in such condition was to get attached to learning beauty and fashion and that has gotten me to my level I am working for a movie firm.
I began to understand that I am good in acting as well. In short I explored my world getting to learn new things everyday and making a huge success with friends.
Secondly, for the fact that you are with your right partner. The one who loves you for who you are truly and you love him too truly. There may come a point in time where misunderstanding might arise. If the person is your soul mate, as a woman its first of all good to say “ I am sorry” .
Apology is the lubricant of a successful relationship. It doesn't mean there won't be offence but a successful relationship is how misunderstanding are solved.
When misunderstanding arises, calm the situation and even if you are right, discuss with your partner at the cool of the day about the issue and tell him or her what went wrong and how you both should resolve the case.
But if such person continues in that act such as cheating, it’s better to walk out peacefully out of that relationship. If he loves you he won’t cheat on you. If you love him you won’t cheat on him.
There is nothing good in cheating, you can help your partner to become the best man in bed ever if truly that’s your soul mate.s
A short story as summarized by me.
Conclusion
I came to understand that there is something humans are limited to ordinarily. stuffs like knowing the future, knowing who is your match partner, friends and what you should become in future. I will personally talk about “ understanding your future ambition” in another post.
Thanks for reading.