Hy, everyone, I am wishing you a happy new week with favors in this week. I found something very important I would like to share with everyone.
It is about the issue of gossip. Going through life has some certain principles and you must apply them. How do we get to know about this principles? it’s through experience of others.
It’s quite obvious that whenever ladies meet themselves, they jist, have some fun and get entertained and gossip as well.
These are all good except for gossips but I want to point out some facts about it and why it’s not good.
What is Gossip?
Gossip is a form of communication with someone talking some negative things about another person.
The difference between a gossip and a jist is that gossips points out some negative fact about a person while jist just talks about something special probably talking good sense about someone, and event or a thing.
I am a lady in my 30’s and above and have come to understand in life, it’s not good to gossip about people when you speak negative about people, make plans to correct them of their errors but if you don’t make plans to correct them and you just only speak bad about them, it may in turn affect you the speaker or hearer.
Why you should not gossip
You hurt yourself in return
If you speak bad about a person without making efforts to correct them of their wrong doing, you will be spoken bad of by another person and humans have some form of speaking effect in them which makes what you speak have effect on the person spoken of. This is the karma principle of life.
Hatred
Once you start gossiping about someone, you stand a chance to develop hatred for them. If you begin to hate a person, someone else will hate you. Its normal. Its better you avoid the person if he or she has done harm to you than to hate the person in your mind.
Conclusively
It is not good to speak bad about others if you are not making plans to correct them. do not form the habit of gossiping because it will in turn affect you. I want you to take a practical look at your life if you have been gossiping I don’t mean jist, if you are the gossip type check out if there has been some progress in you physically, financially and the way you appear. It’s way too practical.
I appreciate the time spent on reading this have a happy Sunday with blessed week
