Over and over again I kept on wondering if love is how Indian movies projected it to us if you want to live your love life according to what Indian movies show us then you are at the peak of committing suicide because of their way of showing love is really hilarious and sometimes annoying. I have watched several Indian movies where hatred turns into an unending love just with one act of kindness or seeing what a man couldn't see in a woman before. Love is an important key in any human's life, there is more to love life than what people project to us in home movies. Am a fan of Indian movies so I enjoy all of their movies a lot but I think something is missing because most all their movies about marriage are marriage by compulsion they are not allowed to marry who they love and this later become a problem in their marriage.
Love is a beautiful thing if it is experienced by the right person, we are not supposed to force anyone into marriage, marriage is by choice, not a must. Marriage is to be enjoyed so why go into marriage with someone you don't love? Why would you want to live a boring life? Why would you want to be alone in a marriage?
Emotions change I surely believe that but what of all the damages it would have caused before it finally changes to what you want or what if it doesn't change at all? Then you will be in a marriage like you are in prison for as long as only God knows, I don't think any woman deserves such a life. Recently I was opportune to start an episode Indian movie on one of their channels which is star life the movie is titled imlie and I will love to share some part of it with you.
Imlie is the name of a village girl who was forced into marriage by her grandmother because she felt imlie is a burden to her, her father was a renowned painter who visited their village pagdandia and fell in love with her mother which resulted in her birth but he left the village immediately he was done with his work there not knowing the woman he fell in love with is pregnant for him already. The woman single-handedly brought up this girl until she was eighteen (18) years of age then a journalist named Adithya Tripathi came to their village which is pagdandia for his journalism duty and met this young girl named imlie. She was trying to help this journalist round her village and they were caught up in the rain, they decided to stay safe in a place for the rain to stop unknown to them that imlie's mother and the villagers were already looking for her and they found them both where they were hiding. The villagers believe they must have been involved in some immoralities and for this reason, her grandmother forced her into marriage with this journalist.
They got married and the man was forced to take imlie to Delhi with him unknown to them that the journalist is about to get married to his fiancee in Delhi before coming to the village. On getting to Delhi this journalist introduced imlie as a servant he brought from the village to help them with the house chores this ruined the girl's self-esteem, self-respect, and emotions but she embraced the lie and acted like a servant just to make herself happy. And fortunately for her, she was loved by all the family members and this made her forget the journalist's wickedness toward her. This journalist got married to his fiancee right in front of this village girl and showed love, care, and affection which he doesn't show towards imlie but as they say, people change gradually this journalist began to change his attitude towards her after she was involved in an accident where she was shot. He is fond of this village girl that his real wife began to notice a fowl playing and they started having issues now he is not enjoying his marriage with his real wife because he always has the thought of this village girl in his heart and now his wife's father is the same as the village girl's father. Hatred turns to love but most times it doesn't work that way. It might never end in love, the suffering might last forever so therefore we might be careful in choosing partners. Marriage is a lifelong journey don't rush into it to avoid rushing out in the long run. Do not marry out of pity, do not marry because of pressure, do not marry because of compulsion, and choose your happiness wisely to live a long life and enjoy a happy marriage .
