I hope all fares well for your wife and you. Like you I chose not to get the vaccine shot. When my lung collapsed on me they tested me and yes I tested positive for corona, and also had pneumonia, but I am still slowly recovering.

I found it interesting that not long ago the CDC restricted who can get one of the vaccines because of blot clotting issue, which was known and talked about a bit when the first shots were given out, but of course those adverse stories were trampled by the media and government sources.

I'm still not sure if the vaccines are out of the experimental stage yet or not. Corona is survivable with out the vaccine. It effects people differently just like the flu affects people differently.

Try not to over worry about it, and make sure your wife gets plenty of sleep, vitamin C and Zinc.