there is one thing about life is grace the grace that someone has might not be the same grace with yours and seriously marriage is mot something you just indolge you have to be ready to take responsibility and also able to take hard the life i saw in my family i dont even have mind of getting married at all because of the challenges i saw my brothers and there wives passing through is never easy at all most especially if you marry a lazy partner or not the right partner bro you have really fall in pit of suffering that is why my prayer is to marry the right person at the right time and hard working wife not a liability