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Usually, I rank-up and list down different places, celebrities, and tech related strategies to stand you high in a market but today I'll write upon your life and its happiness, ill rank-up 5 crucial strategies to live a happy, healthy and yes a wealthy life too. I met a psychologist last week after that I made a deep study of human psyche while keeping the discussion we had, to write this brief but the very influencing article to make your life happier and your personality a better one.
People just live their lives, they don’t know who they are and what they intend to be, just wait for a while reading this line and ask yourself this question: Either I am living my life or just acting while assuming my life a role play….? You all know very well what I mean by acting because when you act you lose your own identity and start pretending what you are not, in this way you lose your real source of happiness that is – your own personality and purpose of your existence. Your job is done 50% awesomely when you accept yourself and become satisfy on that.
Tip: You need to ask this question at least twice in every 12 hours that either you are living while being yourself or just pretending what you are not. And undoubtedly second one is the frightening situation.
This point is as difficult as it sounds because I am asking for something much difficult, right? You can’t do something better to yourself and I am asking to be the love of others, but trust me if you do something good for OTHERS without any intentions to get something in return you will feel the real waves of happiness. You have heard it several times ‘Do good, Get good’ but I would say just do good and keep doing that this is the way you can feel amazing. If you have money spends a 0.5% of it for others happiness, if you don’t have money then you have god words speak for other happiness. Find out a real and original source of happiness, Give time to your family, usually we go to parents or grandparents when we need something either money or support but spending time with your blood relations gives you an ultimate strength or that is priceless.
A kid can learn more than ten languages at the age of 2 to 5, in this age he is free from all worries of life, he enjoys what he does he makes fun from every activity he does, similarly, you should enjoy whatever you are doing, when you will do so you will put 100% of efforts, don’t find your source of happiness in others, find it inside you seek what you love, and live for yourself first!. Don’t miss even any little reason to cheer yourself, it is the general practice which engineers or professionals follow they break down large streams and projects into small steps and then celebrate the complication of each one, this gives them the power to work better and more consistently for the next step.
Put the two together, say no to stress and yes to happiness. For the first one let me share a common philosophy related to stress with you- when you expect something and think for outcomes you lose focus, so instead of thinking and planning too much for failure or success start trusting yourself and giving best for now. There would be definitely thousands of people who will oppose you at every step and will let you feel that they born just to make your life even worse but you have to say no and ignore all these acts and Focus on what you intend to do.
It’s a general practice and authentic research-based saying that- when you observe and feel the difference between you and the one who is higher in status and standard than you, ultimately you start lacking in optimistic attitude, positivity and feel regret and bad for who you are instead of this when you start for the ones who lie at lowest level than you by any mean, Eventually you start realizing the blessings you have and start paying thanks for those. If you can read this post you are blessed, because you can read and understand but there are even millions who can’t even read or understand, so start realizing small blessings around you and eventually you will become satisfied.
Although this rate does vary from country to country but a general past statistics shows from 7.53 billion of world population less than 3.4 billion are happy, so ask yourself either you are counted among those 3.4 billion or not, if not then it is quite alarming for you, try to come on that list. Share your source of happiness in a comment section and tell me how you stress down yourself, may be your trick can change someone’s day!!
