People often mistake kindness for weakness. Often times we care too much for people that care too little about us.
Question is, are you fighting for the ones you love or you are fighting for people to love you?
Are you giving people second chances to appreciate you and see your value or are you making them comfortable in disrespecting you?
Those are the things you should think of whenever you allow people back into your life, although am not saying it's bad to give people second chances but to what extent are you going to allow your self be devalued?
Am very big on giving people second chances and trying to fix broken relationship but I later discovered that the other party is not even making effort and am busy putting my all into it. so I stopped pushing,that's when I realized I was the only one making efforts.
Having so much love and goodness in your heart doesn't make you weak,it only means your a better human but being taken for granted because of that is what you should not allow.
Be kind to others,love people without expecting anything in return,do it out of the goodness of your heart.
But most especially be kind to yourself,love yourself to know when to let go,to know a person is toxic to you.
Love yourself enough to be able to walk away from negative people, that doesn't mean your a bad person or you hate them. You can still have love for them in your heart.
Love yourself enough to know that your happiness is solely your responsibility.
Love you all♥️