Freedom should be for everyone right? But too much of it is bad, people tend to misbehave when given too much free hand to do anything,it is in the nature of humans,when you tell them they are free to do anything,they misbehave because you said it,it's nature,it can't be taken away,in my own opinion,too much of everything is bad,not the thing itself but too much of it,so the key to beautiful life is moderation.
Moderation has no limit,so it's applicable to freedom as well.
Let me share something with you,there are alot of people that has watched this "Wura" movie,there was a scene where that woman took his sister's ATM card and just because she was given that card,she used it anyhow and spent more than a million naira in a day without thinking that her sister was working for the money,it's really bad,when given free hand to do anything we should think deeply without overdoing anything, look at her spending for everyone, buying things for people in a day when it's not even her money, spending on things not needed,If Wura had not collected her ATM back,she would spend every dime in that account in less than a month and she would be left with nothing than to start from square one,too much freedom.
Some people believe that if someone is camped inside the house by their parents,they become gullible,they call it "Omo get inside" in my country, meaning someone that doesn't go out,I'm someone like that,I grew up like that,but now that I'm out I don't overdo things because I was once "Omo get inside",now we are talking about too much freedom,parent should free their kids to do things but not over doing them,they should be corrected but not camped, too much of security for a child is not good, you should free your child to go out,they should be able to talk to you as their parent,not that they will be scared to tell you about what is going on in their life because you are always hard on them,you don't give them chance to be free with you,I know about someone that anytime his dad is coming home they are already trembling,what is that? Your children cannot run to you and greet you and laugh,your face is always hard,it's really bad,you should be free with your kids to some extent,not that they will disrespect you,if they do that's another case entirely,too much free hand is not good even at that level or else your kids may become disrespectful.
Another one is not monitoring how your kids spend,you give them too much freedom to buy anything they want because you have the money,they just withdraw any amount and spend on random things without you asking them anything,you aren't building them for the future,they will surely spend more than they have later,even if they don't have money they won't be able to manage money,all they will do is too much spending, giving them too much freedom will only spoil things,they might not be responsible,too much of freedom can harm actually.
