There is a particular section of people who are addicted to someone and something. Their activities become dependent on that tenderness. There are thresholds in everything beyond which the surplus of everything becomes disastrous. Recently I have viewed something weird which shook me internally. Asian people love cricket, particularly although it's the national game of England.An awesome match happened between Pakistan and India. And yes this was the game of nerves. Pakistan won the Battle with 10 wickets and it was the prime time for this country. Each of the cricket lovers appreciated the match with full enthusiasm. But the next thing that happened was mistaken. Indian media turned on a religious blowout and humiliated their cricketers. They are legends for sure but it makes no sense to grab this game personally. Several videos incited hate which was publicly done by several people. They were Smashing TV screens, abusing cricketers and a few tried to humiliate and injure Kashmiri Muslim, Muhammad Shami.
Do you think this is an aspect of the game? I don't think it's the point of attention for all of us that why we lose our senses?Why do we have so many expectations regarding something? Will everything be fulfilled in our way?? Nope, we all have to survive in this era.
When Darwin says
Adapt yourself according to the environment.
It means we have to accept each good or bad thing.
Apart from this, I have witnessed cases In which failure in love caused the boy to kill the girl or injure her. Acid cases are examples. If something is not meant to be yours, why are you spoiling everything? Will these actions support you? Not at all people will lament you for this nonsense. Why can't we tolerate the happiness of others? Our nerves become preheated when things are not done according to our will. The only way to show our aggression is to take revenge? Where is tolerance? Why can't we forgive others? Is our humanity so weak that we are slaves of our minds only?
I believe in the strategy we name move on. If something or someone is giving you torment, move backward and forgive that person. Revenge will be only for a moment. After that, you will only regret your actions. People argue that exhale your frustration in the form of abuses or breakdowns. But to what extent would it be applicable? When you can't overpower your nerves you are not victorious. One of my friends made fun of me for sobbing heavy on the heartbreak and I laughed by indicating to them that I used to drink my tears lol. What can I commit? And why should I have to perform it? Who has authorized me to do it? I am not influencing my heartbeat. Nothing is in our control, not even my thoughts. My Lord is there to direct me towards things. If He keeps on pardoning me why should I keep this?
Forgive each thing that hurts you and stay within limits when you are attracted to something. Respect comes foremost in each relationship.
Thanks for reading.
