You might well find that doing The Presence Process Procedure will help you be less grumpy ;-) with your patients.

You might even be surprised that you find it works so well for emotional-integration that you start recommending it to your patients :-)

The Presence Process Procedure @atma.love/the-presence-process-a-journey-into-the-unknown

i can send link for free pdf download of the book which instructs how to do the procedure if you like.