True, not a disgrace and no shame in the truth and noble purpose, because this kind has been done by a much better and more devout man to Allah Subhanahu wa'ala than you, the third person in this community after his apostle and his shiddiq , that person is Umar bin al-Khatthab radiyallaahu 'anhu.
While the Companions of Khunais bin Hadzafah's husband Hafshah bint Umar ibn al-Khatthab died, Umar radiyallaahu 'anhu decided to find a husband who could protect and take care of his daughter. Umar's choice radiyallaahu 'anhu falls on Abu Bakr Ash-Shiddiq radiyallaahu' anhu, because he knows him as a calm and calculating man who makes him worthy of Hafshah. He met Abu Bakr radiyallaahu 'anhu, conveying to him the widow's state of affairs. Then she openly offered her to marry her, but Abu Bakr did not answer anything.
Umar was confused about Abu Bakr's attitude. He went to Usman bin Affan, who had just died died by his wife Ruqayah binti Rasulullah shallallaahu 'laihiwasallam. Umar radiyallaahu 'anhu spoke to her and offered her to marry her daughter. Usman radiyallaahu 'anhu asked for time to Umar radiyallaahu' anhu. Then Usman radiyallaahu 'anhu replied, "I do not want to marry today." Abu Bakar and Usman's attitude radiyallaahu' anhuma afflicts Umar's chest radiyallaahu 'anhu because both are friends who are not blind to his position. So Umar went to the Prophet (sallallaahu 'alayhi wa sallam) that he had complained about what had happened.
