It is said that, to be able to get the taste of success, one is to wait for tens and hundreds of failed attempts leading to a successful one. What I think, there could be many more of them or less, but failed attempts aren’t exactly failed attempts ; rather they are the continuation of what we call as milestones.
We might feel very sorry and even deeply frustrated with ourselves for the kind of loss and failures we have gone through. It is way normal to have that feeling, I have had them for year's time or many which I could recall.
The truth is whether we win or lose, be successful or go in between failures ; they all take a normal route. What is abnormal is also normal to a some sense, if we could explain them with a proper reason. Sometimes after a sheer financial loss or being bankrupt despite having the trial and endeavour years after year -- they dont show true colours any way.
What if your best efforts and optimistic journey never seem as to pay you off with what you want ?
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The answer maybe like this - you dont get what you want, but what you deserve. The rest is luck you move on from time to time.
Along the way of your journey, the economic conditions should be kept simple. One day, you could feel the thrill of winning and the other day you would normally be disheartened. No matter what that would be, first make sure you have drawn a solid balance, that persists in the long run and let you to not lose hope, when it is greatly needed to continue the journey .
Why it is so important to have the "balance" kept in a good order ?
Well the reasons are many. You might say that, success failure ratio could be a good option to choose for and no matter what the outcome is, be happy with what you are getting. But, I would say balance should also be kept to how we react to circumstances.
Some people do wish to be busy in their own outbursts of joy and thrill. Such excitement after success could be a good thing, but let not forget you might have to go through a failure, which is dark in nature and can kill your spirit to move on again.
In that sense, try to make a balance of mood, fix it instantly. If you could do it successfully then you can have the best result along the way.
I wish you have a great luck.
