Many a times for a man learning to adapt to a new environment becomes tough, even if he wants so much to settle there. It is same for all and out of common human feeling, each and every individual has to taste how it feels to be searching for a new meaning of life.
Some of the human experience becomes the same each and everyday and in regards of ages that pass by. Imagining a child who has just got enrolled into elementary school and getting to know that there are endless journey to follow. With new friends and teachers, home works and exams and some enjoyment in between classes and interval of months time.
Adjusting needs to be done there, doesnt it ?
What about learning to get grades at the university and leaving away home, lovely family and its members, eyes getting bleary to say a temporary good bye and consoling the relatives to be okay until meeting next time when there would fall of semesters or vacations.
Time flies on, with the advancement of it starts to see newer experience, when it all calls for to come back again in old atmospheres.
But some stories of adaptation teaches us how to be ready to face future challenges. I can remember the days to be watchful of taking any opportunity to get a job, preparing hundreds of extra hours to be competent in the exam, days of sturggle and sleepless nights in anticipating something good to happen and not worrying about failure or results.
Slowly things start to pass and creates a new chapter as the days progress. First few days in a new environment is hard to live and adapt, as if learning to live anew. Nothing touches but pain, sorrows and some continual joy bit by bit.
Having the experience to face traffic lights for me, the overcrowded city life, abounding population and the busy schedules, no good foods etc are the newly learnt equations to solve. Days, months and years pass in such way - when it is felt that the time of long await has passed and so memories that carries on.
What I view as a wonderful lesson to learn from such life that, not any particular emotion or sorrows, lack of fulfillment and the shortcomings, success-failures no such things really matter in life. Because we cant even remember what unsatisfying event happened to self just a few days ago.
So why complaining about the odds of life and be sad at the actions ?
Life is nothing but occurrence of event and what matters is how we react to the events passed to us.
I started to believe that as time goes on and on, we get better at looking at life and the society around, become wise and act according and in turn of events, life takes us to a new stage thereby.
So there is nothing to be worried of not fulfilling any dream we wanted in the past. Let not failures judge you, nor your success to define you ; what I say is that let it be just plain words, a pure entity and take the memory with you as you continue to the future life from past to present and continually.
Because,
In the end - we carry with us the memories, nothing less or more.