Talking about the reason why fathers don't always like their daughters’ boyfriends on their first meeting but get friendlier with time.
As a man that will have a daughter one day. It's my role as a father to be protective of my daughter and also to my loved one. I need to love and care deeply about my daughter. I want her to grow up to date and get married to the right person.
However, one of the reason why the father always dislikes the daughter of his boyfriend on their first meeting is the fear of young boys of nowadays. Looking at the society that we are in, woman are mostly being considered as soft-hearted person and this believe always make a lot of man want to take advantage of them, because they mostly see a soft-hearted person as a person who doesn't know how to say no.
Also, a soft-hearted person is considered as a person who sees the best in any man, even if the man is harmful. It's now my right as a father to protect my daughter. Even if the boy is good, I still need to be worried and protective.
In addition to the reason, it's not that most fathers actually wish to hate their daughter's boyfriend on the first day or even assume that the boyfriend is a bad person. But as we all know, young boys of nowadays, are like wolves in sheep's clothing. They appear good outside but some of them have bad intention.
This young boys have a lot of bad plans that they engage in towards girls. Some of the young boys are after the girl's property, while some are after the girl's body (they're called gamer's), some are there to distract her from achieving her goal, while some of the boys are theirs for true love. It's my role as a father to detect the deception one's. To avoid any pain or hurt that could happen to my daughter, because any pain to her will surely bring tears to my eyes.
However, my first meeting with my daughter's boyfriend will definitely involve some apprehension towards him because I am trying to ensure my daughter's well-being, joy and her happiness.
In addition, as a father, it's always advisable to set a boundary as a way to test daughter's boyfriend to see how he will reacts and interacts. This can be also a way to give my daughter the very best.
However, I will be very careful to look at his behavior and intentions towards my daughter. Any shortcomings for him might cause heartbreak or harm to my daughter. If my initial thoughts towards him are not true, because I sense genuine intention and positive qualities in him. I will show my soft attitude towards him.
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