Hello hivers馃尭
How's going? During these quarantine period, we all have much time to spend with thyself.Mine is not different.When you start spending time with yourself, you may discover yourself newly.
Sudden I have discovered myself in a new way.Today while I was passing my leisure time with a mug of coffee and thinking about previous deeds I found something different in me which is not like every one else. Now I am gonna share something about me which I found newly.
Last night I was chatting on whatsapp with my fellow friend on a topic. At a time of conversation, I got very angry because our opinion didn't match with each other.Somehow I can't accept it. I started to say that you are wrong and I'm on right track without showing any reason supporting my argument. I reacted a lot to it then I blocked him.But today when I was thinking about it on cool head,I found myself wrong.
So naturally what should I do? obviously, I should say sorry to him. But I couldn't because it hurts my ego.Recently I feel that my ego is more important to me than any kind of of relationships. I got myself as a egoistic person.
I know no one enjoys losing and I am also one of them. But when it's my turn I react more than others.I speak loudly with the person in front of me. Many time what I am saying or doing has no substance.I don't consider the point of view of others. Sometimes we can't do whatever we want to do just because of our ego that exactly happens to me.
Giving time to people is a huge gift to our loved ones.You must have the ability to communicate with others so that people properly attend you and listen to you effectively.Nothing will kill relationships more quickly like ego.
people are lonely because they build walls instead of bridges. - Joseph F. Newton men
Accept and give importance to others ia a big challenge for me.I can't accept the point of view of others and also can't compromise that makes a bad effect on my relationships.But I can realize it pushes peoples from me. It blocks love coming into my life and also it makes me critical and irrational.
Ego is a dangerous thing which can destroy a beautiful relationship. Ego is not as much important as our beloved ones then why we will lose that person just because of our ego.
Most often I may let my ego over the conversation.I think that I have nothing more to learn from others.So I stop listening to other people , I am doomed because I stop learning. To eliminate this listening barrier,I have to be more open-minded to listen and learn from other people.So when ego comes between a conversation, it totally ruins the communication you make.Ego doesn't allow me to say sorry. It does a bad impact on any kind of conversation.
To get rid of toxic ego is very important for living a healthy life.For that I think what I actually have to know is what matters to me. I think when I get clear to give preferences I can get rid of it.I may focus, not on the rudenesses of others, not on what they've done or left undone, but on what I have.It's better to conquer yourself than others.
I think I also changes the habit of harshly speaking to others.I think all in over self realization is very important for individuals.If you want to know yourself,learn to give yourself time. As we can't go outside unnecessarily because of covid, we all have time.
So use your time and discover thyself newly.That's how you can get over your limitations and make yourself as a better human being. Above all of this, Kill your ego before it become too late as it is ruin your life.So it is high time you should take steps against ego inside you before it kills your humanity.
