One day I was standing at the railway station and was waiting for the train. There was no system of reservation in the train I was waiting for. There was so much rush on the platform that it was clear that the place would be given to him who would overtake the crowd and first climb in the train. Then the announcement was made - The train traveling to Lucknow would come for a 40-minute delay on the platform number 1. "After this announcement, all the passengers sat comfortably and some people were taking sweet sweet flakes of sleep.
A few minutes later, one person got up and headed for the west from where the train was coming. Then a person sitting in the chair told a friend sitting near him, "Look, the person has gone ahead, maybe the train arrived, if not, then do not get the place." By saying this, the two men ran towards where the train stopped coming. Seeing both of them running away, the crowd sitting in a comfortable place rushed and the mob got up and moved towards the front where the train stopped coming. Seeing the crowd also went ahead. Going forward, it came to know that the train has not come. The person who first went on ahead was such a stroll.
On that day I understood that,
"If most people are going in one direction, it does not mean that they are moving in the right direction."
On that day I was skeptical of my ability to think and decide because when all were going forward, I ran ahead with the crowd and I did not even consider this for a moment that the railway has just announced this The train will arrive after 40 minutes.
One of the reasons for our problems today is that we do not think independently and take decisions on the basis of decisions made by other people. If a student decides about his career, then he takes his decision on the basis of which area his friends have chosen, or whether a family member is already in that area. Friends students should decide independently and on the basis of their interest. Just as each person's behavior and circumstances of life are different, so the same type of decision can not be right for all persons.
Today, more and more youth wanders for the job rate and get ready for a job in which they can not use their full potential. He does not think that he can do anything on his own and it is not necessary to get any job for it. Most of the people give jobs to such a high priority because the crowd is moving forward in this direction and they do not want to leave the crowd together.
"The crowd always runs on the path that seems easy, but that does not mean that the crowd always runs on the right track."
Make friends your own, wake up your dreams, make your mind independent, take your decision yourself, because "nobody knows you better than you".
@arvindkumar