Thank you and I'm sorry for your loss.
We are having similar issues with family trying to travel to town for his funeral service. This area is said to be rather hard hit at the moment (I honestly can't tell the difference) We decided to do something very small with the immediate family who all live near by but his military honors and memorial will have to wait for a few months.
I think a lot of people are starting to feel as we do but I still see the cult-like people every day at work. They will forget their mask in their car or something. I will tell them that its fine and that I'll still serve them but they almost always run out to get it anyway as though they are committing some kind of sin that will follow them even if they don't get caught by some cop who is board enough to bother to write him a ticket. At times it's comical but I feel like it has be causing some kind of psychological damage to people and trains them to default to a position of compliance (which I don't see as positive).
RE: Darker Moods: A Death in the Family, Cult of Cowardice, Bowing to Gods and Kings