Konsagradong Layko 'Kamo... Bakit Controversial? | The Intrigue of Being a Consecrated Lay Person (Part 3 of 3) [Fil-Eng]
Aba, hindi ko rin alam 'yan noon. Karamihan ng mga Pinoy di rin alam ano yan. At marami ang di naiisip na alamin kung ano ba ang tinatawag nilang Konsagradong Layko.
Bago ka tumuloy sa pagbabasa, pakibasa po muna yung Part 1, Part 2a at Part 2b para maintindihan nyo po mabuti ang mababasa nyo rito.
- Part 1: Ang Lihim na Pagkatao ng mga Tulad ni Chin-Chin Gutierrez | God's Secret Agents Are Among Us (Part 1 of 3) (Fil-Eng)
- Part 2a: Paano Maging Konsagradong Layko Gaya ni Bb. Chin-Chin Gutierrez? | How Does One Become a Consecrated Lay Person? (Part 2a of 3) (Fil-Eng)
- Part 2b: Ang Pagiging Konsagradong Layko na Tulad ng Sikat na Bb. Chin-Chin Gutierrez | How We Can Become a Consecrated Lay Person (Part 2b of 3) (Fil-Eng)
In photo: Ms. Chin-Chin Gutierrez is the one on the right, in checkered clothing. source
Ang Chismis o Fake News kay Bb. Chin-Chin Gutierrez ay Sobrang Kalat na po
Alam mo bang merong mga Catholic FB pages mismo na nagkakalat ng fake news na naging madre na si Bb. Chin-Chin Gutierrez? Hindi ito nakakatuwa dahil ibig sabihin more on clout or views and reaction chasing na sila imbes na magpakalat ng katotohanan at tamang katesismo. Hindi man lang nila vine-verify ang pinagmulan o kung totoo nga ba bago nila ipakalat. Nakakalungkot pero wala eh, ganyan ang epekto ng chismis.
Ang pinakamalala, pati na rin ang EWTN Asia Pacific e inaprubahan ang isang artikulo na nagpapakitang naniwala sila sa maling balita at ipinakalat lalo nila ang fake news na yan! Ay grabe. Ganyan na po kalala ang sitwasyon ng mundo ngayon! Actually isang source nga lang pinagkunan ng nagsulat ng artikulo kaya ayun ang labas e parang nakiki-ride on lang sa trending topic.
Ang dating pagbabalita na kailangan muna may mga verified sources bago i-publish ngayon hindi na nagve-verify ng mga mapagkakatiwalaang source at basta na lang ikinakalat kung ano yung mga sabi-sabi. Nakakadismaya na pati mga dapat na pagkukunan mo ng pawang katotohanan e hindi palaging mapagkakatiwalaan. Hayayay...
Iba na talaga ang nagagawa ng katamaran ngayon. Kaya kung hindi po kayo marunong mag-isip ng tama kawawa na po talaga ang henerasyon ngayon at mga susunod pa. Mga tao hindi na po marunong ng critical thinking, mga tamad din mag-verify ng sources. Hayssss, this is actually a whole other topic for another day. 🤦♀️
Balik tayo sa usapang Konsagradong Layko.
Sinu-sino ba ang mga Lay Consecrated?:
Paano ba masasabing ang isang tao ay nakonsagrang layko na? Siyempre di mo yun magagawa ng mag-isa mo lang. Kelangan mo sumali sa isang grupo para maging miyembro. Ang buhay ng tao ay hindi para gawin natin lahat na sarili lang natin. Lahat po tayo kailangan ang ibang tao.
So anyway eto na nga yung nalaman kong paraan para maging Consecrated Lay Person. Unang-una, ano muna ang estado mo sa buhay? May asawa ka ba o wala? Kasi yung iba hindi tumatanggap ng may asawa kaya kailangan maghanap po muna ng sasalihan. Ito po ay itinatanong dapat sa Diyos gaya ng pagtanong ng mga seminarista kung magpapari ba tlga sila or what. Kailangan sunod sa will ni Lord ang ating mga ginagawa, kung ano pinakamabuti para sa atin ang Panginoon lang ang nakakaalam kaya kelangan natin Siya tanungin palagi.
Hindi ito ora-orada member ka na agad after 1 or 3 meetings. No. Meron po itong kasamang discernment process atsaka levels kumbaga. Hindi ka tatagal kung di ka tlga meant for this life. Meron naman sobrang mag-e-enjoy kung ito tlga ang buhay na pinili ng Diyos para sa kanila. Basta ang alam ko, aabutin ka ng ilang taon bago ka maging perpetually professed member. 😆 Ganun yun!
Ngayon, anu-ano ba yung mga pwede salihan?
Mga Konsagradong Birhen at mga Ermitanyo
Yes po, ang mga birhen ay pwede rin maipakasal sa Diyos na hindi nagiging madre, pati na ang pagiging ermitanyo. Obispo po mismo ang naggagawad ng kanilang estadong pinili upang maging Consecrated Lay Person.
Kung nabasa nyo mga naunang post ko matagal na pong merong ganito.
3rd Order Members a.k.a. Secular Orders, Tertiaries or Lay associates
Sila yung mga kasali sa tinatawag na Public Associations ayon sa Canon Law ng Simbahang Katolika. Ito yung mga grupo ng mga laiko na nakakabit sa religious orders mismo tulad ng mga Dominikano, Pransiskano, Carmelites, Augustinians, etc.
Again, hindi po sila mga pari o madre, Consecrated Lay People po sila na sumusunod sa mga katuruan at gawain ng kanilang sinalihang orden. Kumbaga sa bawat tao may sariling pagkatao, ganyan din ang iba't-ibang orden may sarili silang ginagawa o misyon sa mundo.
Best example ng 3rd order member na kilala nating mga Pinoy ay si Bb. ChinChin Gutierrez na sumali sa mga Carmelites. Meron din pong mga santo na 3rd order members: Sta. Rosa ng Lima, San Bartolo Longo at San Pier Giorgio Frassati na sumali sa mga Dominicans tsaka si Sta. Catalina ng Genoa na sumali sa Franciscans, atbp.
Pwede sumali rito ang mga may asawa pati mga walang asawa.
Mga miyembro ng Societies of Apostolic Life
Basahin nyo na lang online kung ano 'to. Basta iba pa yan sa mga nabanggit ko rito. 😁 Sige na nga eto na lang:
Meron pong ganito sa Taguig City tsaka sa Calamba & Nuvali, Laguna apparently. Mga member ng Regnum Christi.
Photo at the top: Lay Consecrated Men of Regnum Christi | source + Photo at the lower left: Lay Consecrated Women of Regnum Christi-DC | source
Ang mga members ng Secular Institutes.
Bago lang 'to, since 1947-48 lang. For more info, basahin nyo mga 'to: Pope Pius XII's Apostolic Constitution Provida Mater Ecclesia and Motu Proprio Primo Feliciter.
Itong mga grupong ito ng mga laiko ay madalas pwede lamang salihan ng mga walang asawa pero meron ding ilan na tumatanggap ng mag-asawa o may asawa.
Ang mga halimbawa na pwedeng salihan ay ang:
- Missionaries of the Rogate (or Associazione della Missionarie Rogationiste | Rogationists)
- Pauline Institutes of Secular Consecrated Life for the Laity (Pauline Family) and
- Christian Life Community (Ignatian).
Wanna know more? Here you go:
So Ano'ng Controversial Diyan?
Maraming hindi alam yang mga yan kaya kung anu-anong chismis nangyayari online. Gaya nga ng nasabi ko sa taas, hindi po naging madre yung dating artista na binabanggit ko dito at sa buong post series ko na'to.
Tandaan: Pwede tayo magpakabanal kahit di maging pari o madre/mongha.
Ano Yung Pinili Ni Bb. Chin-Chin Gutierrez?
Sa tingin mo ano ba yung sinalihan ni Ms. Chin-Chin?
May idea ka ba?
Huy, nasabi ko na nga sa taas kung ano ang sinalihan ni Bb. Gutierrez. 😁 Sumali po siya sa Carmelites order bilang isang Konsagradong Layko na walang mga kasama. Hindi siya bahagi ng isang komunidad. At ayon pa rin sa dating aktres, ang tanging panata lamang nya ay kalinisan.
"Aba eh pwede pala yung gan'on?" Yes, siya mismo nagsabi niyan o. Kasama yan sa sinulat niya nung 2024.
Chin-Chin Gutierrez on consecrated life. | source
Pero actually yung ibang tao ang tawag sa kanya ay Sister kahit hindi naman siya madre. Pwede rin naman kasi yun eh. Kaya wag kayo ma-confuse kasi kahit sa ibang parish organizations ganyan tlga tawagan, bro at sis. 😆
Handa Ka Na Ba Maging Kagaya ni Chin-Chin Gutierrez?
Kahit lalaki ka pwede po maging Konsagradong Layko. Kako nga ke may asawa o wala pwede rin sumali. So sa tingin mo ito na ba ang senyales ng Panginoon sa iyo para maging kagaya ni Chin-Chin?
Nagawa mo na ba yung steps na nasulat ko sa Part 2a at Part 2b? Ano ang masasabi mo sa mga nabasa mo? Share nyo lang po sa comments.
XOXO,
@artgirl
ENGLISH TRANSLATION
Well, I didn't know about it either. Most Filipinos don't know what this is. And many don't even think of finding out what Consecrated Lay People are.
Before you continue reading, please read Part 1, Part 2a and Part 2b first so that you can understand everything you are about to read here. :
- Part 1: Ang Lihim na Pagkatao ng mga Tulad ni Chin-Chin Gutierrez | God's Secret Agents Are Among Us (Part 1 of 3) (Fil-Eng)
- Part 2a: Paano Maging Konsagradong Layko Gaya ni Bb. Chin-Chin Gutierrez? | How Does One Become a Consecrated Lay Person? (Part 2a of 3) (Fil-Eng)
- Part 2b: Ang Pagiging Konsagradong Layko na Tulad ng Sikat na Bb. Chin-Chin Gutierrez | How We Can Become a Consecrated Lay Person (Part 2b of 3) (Fil-Eng)
In photo: Ms. Chin-Chin Gutierrez is the one on the right, in checkered clothing. source
The Gossip or Fake News about Ms. Chin-Chin Gutierrez is Everywhere
Did you know that there are even Catholic FB pages that are spreading fake news that Ms. Chin-Chin Gutierrez has become a nun? This is not funny because it means that they are more on clout or views and reaction chasing instead of spreading the truth and correct catechism. They don't even verify the source or if it is true before they spread it. It's sad but that's the reality, that's the effect of gossip.
The worst thing is, even EWTN Asia Pacific approved an article that shows that they believed the false news and even spread it! Oh, how terrible. That's how bad the situation in the world is now! Actually, the author of the article only used one source, so that's why it seems like they're just riding on the trending topic.
The old practice that news must have verified sources before publishing is not done meticulously anymore so people just spread so-called truths which are actually rumors. It's frustrating and such a source of dismay that even the supposed reputable media companies that should be sharing the truth are not always reliable. Ah humanity...
The level of laziness really is different nowadays. So if you don't know how to think right, then the current generation and the next ones will be really miserable. People who don't know how to think critically are usually lazy to verify sources. sigh This is actually a whole other topic for another day. 🤦♀️
Let's go back to the Consecrated Layperson discussion.
Who are the Lay Consecrated?
How can someone be a consecrated lay person? Of course you can't be like that on your own. You have to join a group to become a member. Humanity is not meant to live as if everything should be done by ourselves alone. We all need other people.
So anyway, here are the things I learned on how to become a Consecrated Lay Person. First of all, what is your state in life? Are you married or single? Some groups don't accept married people so you first have to determine which one to join. This should be asked of God like seminarians ask if they are really going to become priests or what. We need to follow the Lord's will in whatever we do. The Lord knows what is best for us so we need to always ask Him.
It's not like you're a member right away after 1 or 3 meetings. No. It involves a discernment process and levels, so to speak. You won't last long if you're not really meant for this life. Some people will enjoy it immensely if this is the life God has chosen for them. All I know is that it will take you a few years before you become a perpetually professed member. 😆 That's how it is!
Now, what types of groups are the ones we can join?
Consecrated Virgins and Hermits
Yes, virgins can also be married to God without becoming nuns/religious sisters, including becoming hermits. The bishop himself grants their chosen state to become a Consecrated Lay Person.
If you've read my previous posts, this has been going on for a long time.
3rd Order Members a.k.a. Secular Orders, Tertiaries or Lay associates
They are those who are members of what are called Public Associations according to the Canon Law of the Catholic Church. These are the groups of lay people who are attached to religious orders themselves such as the Dominicans, Franciscans, Carmelites, Augustinians, etc.
Again, they are not priests or nuns, they are Consecrated Lay People who follow the teachings and practices of the order they joined. Just as each person has their own personality, so too does the different orders have their own work or mission in the world.
The best example of a 3rd order member that we Filipinos know is Ms. ChinChin Gutierrez who joined the Carmelites. There are also saints who are 3rd order members: St. Rose of Lima, St. Bartolo Longo and St. Pier Giorgio Frassati who joined the Dominicans and St. Catherine of Genoa who joined the Franciscans, etc.
Married and single people can join this.
Members of Societies of Apostolic Life
Just read online what this is. This is another kind of group. 😁 Oh alright, here it is:
One example of this is actually in Taguig City besides Calamba & Nuvali, Laguna apparently. Members of Regnum Christi.
Photo at the top: Lay Consecrated Men of Regnum Christi | source + Photo at the lower left: Lay Consecrated Women of Regnum Christi-DC | source
Members of Secular Institutes.
This is new; only around since 1947-48. For more info, read these: Pope Pius XII's Apostolic Constitution Provida Mater Ecclesia and Motu Proprio Primo Feliciter.
These lay groups are often open to single people only, but some also accept married couples.
Examples of groups that can be joined are the:
- Missionaries of the Rogate (or Associazione della Missionarie Rogationiste | Rogationists)
- Pauline Institutes of Secular Consecrated Life for the Laity (Pauline Family) and
- Christian Life Community (Ignatian).
Wanna know more? Here you go:
So What's Controversial About It?
Many people don't know all of the above that's why gossips are the ones going around online. As I said above, the former actress I'm talking about here and in my entire post series NEVER became a nun.
Remember: We can strive to be holy without being a priest or nun/sister.
What Did Ms. Chin-Chin Gutierrez Choose?
What do you think Chin-Chin joined?
Do you have any ideas?
Hey, I already mentioned above which one Ms. Gutierrez joined. 😁 She has become part of the Carmelites order as a Consecrated Layperson without companions. She is not part of a community either. And according to the former actress, her only vow is chastity.
"Huh, is that possible?" Yes, she said that herself. That's in her 2024 writing.
Chin-Chin Gutierrez on consecrated life. | source
But actually some people call her Sister even though she is not a nun. That is also acceptable. So don't get confused because even in other parish organizations, women are called that. We say bro and sis before anyone's name. 😆
Are You Ready to Be Like Chin-Chin Gutierrez?
Even if you are a man, you can become a Consecrated Layperson. Whether you are married or single, you can also join up. So do you think this is the Lord's sign for you to be like Chin-Chin?
Have you done the steps I wrote in Part 2a and Part 2b? What do you think of what you have read? Feel free to share it in the comments.
XOXO,
@artgirl