How to choose your friend
the friendship
Friendship is the strong bond that binds people to each other, and the two parties to the friendship are not required to be non-kin. Friendship is also between the father and his son, mother and daughter, brother and sister, father and daughter, and may be cousins, cousins, Also, among those who are not close to people, and in many cases the friend may be closer to the family members who are supposed to be the closest people to the human; either because the parents are geographically far away, or because the tie that connects the person to his family is very weak,
Characteristics of the friend
Friendship is the convergence of two spirits first and foremost, so the choice of a friend depends on how comfortable the friend feels when he sees his friend, in many cases someone might be surprised by the friendship of two other people, although they are not identical in any detail of the details, Like brothers, but if a man were to choose his friend and look for him, it would be better to look for someone who has the following criteria.
The friend must have a reasonable mind, so that it is a suitable refuge when a problem occurs, and it will also be a mirror for his friend, revealing his faults and mistakes, and protecting him from stumbling, and the friend who does not work his mind may increase the size of the problems that may involve his friends and acquaintances.
That the friend is connected to God, and not a formality link like those who abound in worship and praise and never pay attention to their morals, and deal with people, the link with God requires that man be created, with a great spirit first and foremost.
A friend who seeks only his interests is definitely not loyal, and will not walk with the other party to the end of the break, but will leave him in the middle of the road and leave when the end of his interest.
A friend must sacrifice for his friend, not to leave him alone in crises. In this regard, the friend should not be burdened or harassed. Sometimes a friend may not have what he has to offer, but he remains supportive of his partner morally and psychologically. Faith, and even faith in the case of a friend with limited skills, abilities.
Choose Friend
As for the manner in which the friend chooses his friend, it must be based on the confidence that this friend is indeed the person to trust him and his attachment, and this through the successive examinations that may be subject to the friend, for example if passed through the human distress and did not stand his friend to his side as possible - this friend will not be friendly to friendship, and also if the friend of the quality that loses control of itself in anger it will not be a friendship for this person when he gets angry will do anything to heal him in general - even if not confirmed the validity of his beliefs, and Traveling with a friend is considered the best detector for his or her eligibility, where the saf is shown Metal friend is very large.
By Mohamed Marwan