Was just browsing through the dating sites.. And It's been a while since I've commented on my experiences on there.
But this one felt like it was worth of a lil write up.
This lady says in her profile something to the extent of.. "I'm looking for a man who can make me happy".
I think this right here is a major thing, I think.. A lot of people probably aren't happy and try to fill that void with a person who they think will suffice.
However.. I'm thinking.. You should already be happy, to whatever extent that is possible.
And.. You know.. Maybe she is and I'm just nitpicking a laziness in language and she just didn't word herself as properly as she could have.
Yet.. I think this is a significant point. Of course a romantic interest will make us HAPPIER, or at least they should or why even connect at all?
Though.. The key word is happier.. You should be happy to some extent already, if you are dependant on someone ELSE making you happy.. That is not good.
You need to be happy already on some level, and not dependant on others for your happiness, they should be an addition to your already somewhat happy state and not the end all be all to such.
That's my opinion anyways! Could be right, could be wrong, could be a combination and a bit of both.
I dunno. Just felt like expressing my thoughts on that.