Indeed someone can be called independent not because he has no longer ask, but more because he was able to give hope to be given again.
Stop looking for someone who is perfect. Find someone who treats you well and he is happy with you, and you feel at ease by his side, love is about mutual filling and understanding.
When one door closes, another door opens; but sometimes we see and regret the closed door is too long until we do not see another door that has been open.
There is nothing exhausting about eating and drinking, but that's how God makes it so wonderful that you never get tired of doing it.