Cheating brings pain and disappointment, especially to the person who never expected to be betrayed.How with dignity to survive the betrayal and at the same time, if you want to save the relationship? There are 8 stages of therapy a kind of betrayal.
Stage 1. Shock, stress, denial.
Basically last from a few minutes to several days. If a woman only suspected of treason, she will try to find excuses for his wife, wants to shield him myself.
Stage 2. Anger at himself.
The woman begins to seek the cause of male adventures left in itself. Often this stage takes place over a few hours, but may take several weeks or longer. She tries to analyze your actions, words, evaluate your appearance and your skills in different spheres of life.
Stage 3. Aggression on the wife and the mistress.
This period is important, because a person needs to turn the aggression on offenders in order to protect their psyche from "burnout". He last few weeks. A woman needs to vent his anger out on her husband and his lover, a desire of revenge.
Stage 4. The inability to look to the future.
Treachery pulls the lady out of the usual way of life. If yesterday she was confident in the future, but today she's afraid to look to the future, because never relationship will not be the same.
Stage 5. The desire to return to their seats.
Our mind is looking for stability and comfort, so the wife begins to overwhelm the feeling of love to her husband. Yes, the hatred was gone and she is ready to forgive infidelity, if only honey was there as before.
Stage 6. "No" to the past.
At this stage, if the marriage survived, the couple will attempt to re-build relationships. But the woman is hard to believe the husband, all she wants to reproach him with treachery, to control and require a new oath.
Stage 7. Exhaustion.
This period comes after about six months after the incident. The couple tired to fight, to prove something, to tolerate and to forgive. They are mentally and physically exhausted. They become indifferent: have no wife forces husband to return to the family or if the couple broke up, there is a chill in the relationship.
Stage 8. Conclusions.
In the period from six months to a year and a man and a woman make conclusions: whether really to continue the relationship, will they be able to trust each other, will be able to love, support, and so on. As a result, they either completely break up or already build a stronger Union.
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