It's 100% better to be single than to be in a Teary Relationship.
Generally, dating is becoming hard these days because of hidden motives, zero transparency, pretence, everything is hidden; age, faith, education, character, lifestyle, Feelings, even names.
A lot of people are not honest with their intentions and emotions...that's why anyone can say "I Love You" but not everyone can wait to prove it.
Reasons Why Relationship Seem Hard:
_ Undefined Purpose & Mission.
_ Lack of Self Control.
_ Wrong mentality about SEX.
_ Wrong Advice.
_ Love of Money & Material things.
_ Pretence and Lies.
_ Bad or Wrong Foundation.
_ Following the Crowd.
_ Past Experience(s).
Points to also note When a Relationship is Heading towards a Wrong Direction:
!. Whenever you no longer feel his/her Presence Emotionally and Physically.
!. When more focus is on Discovering faults and Yielding to Weaknesses
!. When there is a gap in Communication and Divided Attention..(I will call you back but will never call, unless you call again)
!. When there are new Rules and Regulations..(Don't go through my phone and i will not go through yours too)
!. Don't wait for me ooo (If you see someone you can marry)
!. When your Relationship no longer makes you Happy..(We are just there)
!. When Behavior and Actions are repeated, despite Corrections and Apology.
!. Constant conflict in Conversation and Discussion.
!. When Quality Time is not given to the Relationship..(Always "I will")
Here's My Solution For You:
^ There is every Need to Seat Down and Talk..(Not in the room or hotel but in a garden or quiet environment)
^ Time to face Reality and Overlook Emotions.
^ We are into this together, therefore we must Sort it out Together or Peaceful Separation.
^ Delete SEX and see if you can both LOVE beyond Sex.
^ Build more on Friendship and avoid Public Show.
^ Turn your WEAKNESSES to STRENGTH.
^ Avoid SUSPECTING and allow TRUST to Override.
^ PRAY more and TALK LESS.
^ Believe you both are the BEST and avoid DISTRACTION.
Ladies and Gents..
∆ Love with purpose!
∆ Be real and never fake!
∆ Be honest with your intentions!