The single space is a Yes for me but what will I do when I found myself in a nation where mothers derive joy when they discover you are close to making them grandmothers.
Relationship is a place where apology is like taking in oxygen.
If you are not ready for that then I beg you not to even think of going there.
It's either you apologize for sleeping early or you are apologizing for not sleeping on time.
It's either you apologize for not calling or you are apologizing for staying long in a call with someone else and of course you have to give a vivid explanation and details of what you are discussing and who you were having that discussion with.
It's either you apologize for not texting or you are apologizing for leaving a text unread.
You find yourself apologizing for not eating or apologize for being hungry.
It's either you are Apologizing for not saying good night or you apologize for saying goodbye in the wrong way.
So many funny things are attached to being in a relationship.
If your heart is not big enough to accommodate such things then be rest assured that your heart will explode from compressing things that should have just slammed down the carpet if you weren't in any serious relationship.
I have tried working different relationships just to see a positive outcome from whatever engagement I would have had with a partner but it has always turned out to be a mess for me.
It's either I am onto what I don't like or the person involved is not getting what she wants.
Sincerely it has been very difficult meeting up with all the terms and conditions attached to being in a relationship as everyone you tend to meet comes up with their ideas and how they want to be treated.
I am currently in a relationship with a lady that wants to talk every minute with me.
Although communication is the bedrock of every relationship and any relationship that tends to lack this is vulnerable to wrong information and it can tear two people apart.
Sincerely, I can't hold conversation for long especially when it has to do with complain and all sorts of emotions, I don't condone such in my space not because I don't have emotions but because I am a very playful person and always joke about almost everything that's simply because the world is too short to begin to take things too serious that you allow it get to your heart hindering you from thinking straight and effectively.
So when I see such conversations coming forth I quietly excuse myself. I don't want a situation when I will start explaining myself or expect you to explain your actions to me.
I know and believe that a conversation held for 1 hour can be wrapped up in 5 to 10 mins most especially when it has to do with some arguments about how things should be done or how one is supposed to respond to a situation. It saves my time and still preserves my energy and mental health.
I don't want to make anyone feel like I don't care because I easily get bored with conversation that will not add funds to my account balance. Save whatever explanation and make it plain and we will have a good time.
Too much talk makes me lose interest, I am sorry to say. I love my partner to be of less words and more of actions which is almost impossible with ladies as they love giving out in detail. This has made me look bad before the ladies I have tried to engage with as they all called me careless and rude as I fail to attend to what they call serious but to me is nothing. I see it as a mare dealing with activities that are bound to occur in our everyday activities.
My lady called me to tell me how her colleague used an abusive word on her simply because she carried out a task assigned to her which in one way or the other affected her colleague.
She explained everything in detail to me expecting a serious reaction from me but that to me is just something that can slide under the carpet so I just laughed and said please when next you are assigned just try as much as possible to avoid her lane and that's all I said and the lady said I don't care about things as serious as this.
I just laughed and moved away from that little argument that was about to erupt.
Guess what, that also brought a different issue the next time we met because I was accused of leaving a serious conversation in the middle of it.
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I want to be in a space where I don't call and I am not questioned on why I didn't call.
I want to be in a space where I can decide not to talk to anybody and I won't be questioned for that either.
I love that space where we just call and hold only conversation that will be of great impact instead of exchanging emotions.
Please don't judge me, but the single space is the best for me.
If only I can get a lady of a few words who doesn't take everything to heart that's only when I can prefer the relationship space but in the absence of that I am sorry to say I will love and prefer the single life.
All thanks to the Indianunited for this beautiful prompt, do well to give out your view on this.
Namaste🙏
