I'm sorry. I could never bring myself to join that site. Commies, really. Funny, when I first went on the net in 2005 I ran across a site called Zaadz and there was this women who every day just posted one sentence and her work became Twitter as far as I can tell. The point is I did register what she was doing and sensed it was something...and it turned out to be Twitter.
I, of course, would love to converse with you in real life. But I get the risks involved and would never hold it against you for not taking those risks.
All I can tell you is that I would not in any circumstance reveal your identity to anyone and would ask the same of you.
My email is [email protected] if you ever want to take that risk.

Warmest regards:) And I hope your birthday was good!