It's so true. Speaking out is probably one of the most important parts of breaking out of the vicious cycle of dysfunction.
I know that your aren't doing it to lash out. I simply haven't garnered up the courage yet because I know the absolute lengths these people will go to absolutely destroy you if you speak out. They will target your career, your personal life, they will stalk social media accounts, they will send threats and they are psychopathic to the extent that when they become unhinged, they will break the law and even commit physical harm to get their revenge. Our daughter is only 4 and we were able to get out and away when she was 2,5 so I am hoping that the exposure to those people will have a very small impact overall. When we left, we were even threatened that they would go to the police and lay kidnapping charges against my husband for removing myself and our daughter from their clutches.
So I totally understand. Those of us that get out should be very proud, it's not easy but it's absolutely worth it.
Have a great day
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