Over time the tendency is to change... everything changes, our thoughts, our actions... what was important is no longer important. We started to care more about people's feelings, and it's not just going up and getting where you want, but being able to stay at the top.
Each path becomes more differentiated, and the trend is to change over time, we have the chance to do everything differently, we stop going to some places.
We stop judging people, we become who we would never think we would become, and it's not selfish to think about ourselves, it's self-love.
Over time, we begin to adapt better with the changes, because our evolution is gradually positive.
And as they say... nothing stays forever, it's natural, everything is a process.
